Post: How should I win her back?
12-19-2010, 09:03 PM #1
Antones
Blood of Innocence
(adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); Well Near enough to the beginning of the year, I got with this really nice girl from my school. We Talked for hours and hours until we both fell asleep on our PC's . Anyways She was like me best mate, We always talked and shared our thoughts and I could trust her with things from my personal Life and Vice versa. So about a week later we got together. But for me it really didnt sink in because im not the best with relationships. So she was like yeah come out and we can chill. So it was Saturday the day I was meant to go out with her. But she brought all her mates. And I personally really hate them, They make me feel so Pissed off all the time. So I said to her Im giving it a miss im really sorry. She was cool with it. The next week came and her mates were out with her again. So I text her explaining look im sorry to say this but I dont like your mates and I explained why so was cool with it. I wanted to go out by myself with her and just have me and her out. But she kept bringing her mates. I myself aint really the most confident person on this planet and I always thought what would people think about me.

So at this point I didnt get to go out with her. She then Inboxed me on Facebook saying its over you dont care about me. When I did cos i always spoke to her really nice and In school too, I always walked her to lesson. But It was when Just me and her wanted to go out alone her mates would always tag along. So yeah she broke up with me. I was rather upset.

Now a few days ago ive started to miss her. Do you think she wil give me another chance? We havnt spoke since she broke up with me. Our friendship is just dead now. But I want to get speaking to her again and give it another shot. What should I do? :cry:
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12-19-2010, 09:07 PM #2
solar
Gym leader
Originally posted by AntiXHaze View Post
Well Near enough to the beginning of the year, I got with this really nice girl from my school. We Talked for hours and hours until we both fell asleep on our PC's . Anyways She was like me best mate, We always talked and shared our thoughts and I could trust her with things from my personal Life and Vice versa. So about a week later we got together. But for me it really didnt sink in because im not the best with relationships. So she was like yeah come out and we can chill. So it was Saturday the day I was meant to go out with her. But she brought all her mates. And I personally really hate them, They make me feel so Pissed off all the time. So I said to her Im giving it a miss im really sorry. She was cool with it. The next week came and her mates were out with her again. So I text her explaining look im sorry to say this but I dont like your mates and I explained why so was cool with it. I wanted to go out by myself with her and just have me and her out. But she kept bringing her mates. I myself aint really the most confident person on this planet and I always thought what would people think about me.

So at this point I didnt get to go out with her. She then Inboxed me on Facebook saying its over you dont care about me. When I did cos i always spoke to her really nice and In school too, I always walked her to lesson. But It was when Just me and her wanted to go out alone her mates would always tag along. So yeah she broke up with me. I was rather upset.

Now a few days ago ive started to miss her. Do you think she wil give me another chance? We havnt spoke since she broke up with me. Our friendship is just dead now. But I want to get speaking to her again and give it another shot. What should I do? :cry:

I hate to be the one to say it but if she's not gonna leave her friends to be with the one she likes even for a day is a bit selfish.. and if she dumped you by FB then shes obviously not mature to say it your face

say you need to speak to her and say you stopped seeing your mates so why don't she even for a day? i've been through this one with the friends and man its tough!
good luck

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Antones
12-19-2010, 09:08 PM #3
Ultimate-Playa
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Originally posted by AntiXHaze View Post
Well Near enough to the beginning of the year, I got with this really nice girl from my school. We Talked for hours and hours until we both fell asleep on our PC's . Anyways She was like me best mate, We always talked and shared our thoughts and I could trust her with things from my personal Life and Vice versa. So about a week later we got together. But for me it really didnt sink in because im not the best with relationships. So she was like yeah come out and we can chill. So it was Saturday the day I was meant to go out with her. But she brought all her mates. And I personally really hate them, They make me feel so Pissed off all the time. So I said to her Im giving it a miss im really sorry. She was cool with it. The next week came and her mates were out with her again. So I text her explaining look im sorry to say this but I dont like your mates and I explained why so was cool with it. I wanted to go out by myself with her and just have me and her out. But she kept bringing her mates. I myself aint really the most confident person on this planet and I always thought what would people think about me.

So at this point I didnt get to go out with her. She then Inboxed me on Facebook saying its over you dont care about me. When I did cos i always spoke to her really nice and In school too, I always walked her to lesson. But It was when Just me and her wanted to go out alone her mates would always tag along. So yeah she broke up with me. I was rather upset.

Now a few days ago ive started to miss her. Do you think she wil give me another chance? We havnt spoke since she broke up with me. Our friendship is just dead now. But I want to get speaking to her again and give it another shot. What should I do? :cry:


The best thing to do is on Facebook there are many relationship status things etc. Pick one of those and if it says to dyou love........ say yes then talk to her on Private Message or Chat and say I still love you and will you be with me. The only thing is is that I want us to be alone and not with your friends as I am not just as happy with them.

Thanks if I helped.

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Antones
12-19-2010, 09:11 PM #4
Tell her she's the one who doesn't care, otherwise she wouldn't have brought her friends all the time and given you two some alone time.

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Encopresis
12-19-2010, 09:13 PM #5
Antones
Blood of Innocence
Originally posted by solar View Post
I hate to be the one to say it but if she's not gonna leave her friends to be with the one she likes even for a day is a bit selfish.. and if she dumped you by FB then shes obviously not mature to say it your face

say you need to speak to her and say you stopped seeing your mates so why don't she even for a day? i've been through this one with the friends and man its tough!
good luck


I Understand, I know she wouldnt leave her mates, its just that She always asked them to come out when I just wanted to be alone with her. And when she didnt they came anyway
12-19-2010, 09:22 PM #6
AmsterIDam
a Dino Philosopher LOLWUT
Hmm well it seems shes just stuck to her mates. And I don't know why she broke up with you and facebook and said you don't care, when she's the one that isn't caring.
12-19-2010, 09:25 PM #7
Encopresis
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Originally posted by AceVirus View Post
Tell her she's the one who doesn't care, otherwise she wouldn't have brought her friends all the time and given you two some alone time.


^^ This .

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