Post: What made you the way you are today
03-30-2011, 05:43 AM #1
TheRandomGuy128
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(adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); Ok guys I'm wondering what made you turn into the person you are right now on how the way you act around other people so I'll start it off with me (this thread was started due to the Smiling thread or whatever.

Ok so I moved into the current city I live in I was starting high school freshman year, (I moved every four years in my life and I lived in mexico for like 12 years?) so anyways making friends for me was no problem but I always dealt with Spanish speakers So back to the story I start off high school im the new kid on a new city and pretty much no friends, I go in with the mentality of Ok hopefully no one will know each other and I'll be lucky and make friends First thing I hear when I go inside the school is "damn Dawg how u been" that's when I noticed i was deep on shit every1 knew each other and I was like **** I was pretty much alone my first 3 per. I considered myself a mature person so I wouldn't do silly things nor mess around(remember that part<<<<<Winky Winky 4th per. PE I met this kid who apparently just moved into town already so we clicked and we hung out during lunch just the two of us then we got more people like around 4? so it was only 5 of us well I don't have to say how much my freshmen Year SUCKED!!! I literally was a nobody I knew no one nobody knew me sophomore year I started off with a new mentality I was thinking either be a looser have no friends for high school or just say **** it and change your atittude so obviously I said **** it and change attitude I decided to just be more... immature be silly (but not stupid silly) I was just more Let go I was more friendly high fiving people do random things, and guess what I got more friends, people started liking me I would smile more and stuff as well, I got to the point where a lot of people knew who I was and people I tought didn't had an opinion on me, well they tought i was pretty chill after maybe like 3 weeks of starting my sophmore year I was basically accepted into different groups of people to hang out with during lunch So i went find the right group for me and started kicking it I pretty much ditched my old friends for like 2 days untill I felt ****ed up and went back with them for 1 day But shit it was boring but my Friend I met last year during 4th per. was a good person so i took him down with my other friends well he didn't "click in" with them so he found a new group my sophmore year (10th grade) was WAY more interesting than freshmen year I started going to parties a bit and life was overall more fun my junior year I again let go a bit more and I met more people and well junior year was better than sophmore as well, currently a senior and it's all going well, and my ending to the long thing I just wrote is if you are not happy with the people you currently hangout with/ don't have enough fun just say F' it and change try to be different be more fun I was shy as well my freshmen year but you just gotta break out through your shell and what made you, you the way you currently are? and to finish this off

“Live life fully while you're here. Experience everything. Take care of yourself and your friends. Have fun, be crazy, be weird. Go out and screw up! You're going to anyway, so you might as well enjoy the process. Take the opportunity to learn from your mistakes: find the cause of your problem and eliminate it. Don't try to be perfect; just be an excellent example of being human.” Anthony Robbins.

TL: DR version = Mature < a bit immature (socially)
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03-30-2011, 05:58 AM #2
HxC-AzN
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i have always been a badass throughout my entire life.
03-30-2011, 06:00 AM #3
TheRandomGuy128
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Originally posted by AzN View Post
i have always been a badass throughout my entire life.


well my only crappy year was freshmen year high school all other years no problems since I could speak spanish my 1st language cuse I lived in mex for almost my whole life but as soon as I moved to an all english speaking place it terrified me and I fell down to the shyness due to not being able to speak english that good
03-30-2011, 06:04 AM #4
gola
OVER 9000!
Basically everyone was a cunt to me for most of my early life which made me a depressed, antisocial person.... eventually I ended up living with my elderly grandma due to family issues and I had to care for her for a bit which made me more of a loving/nicer person.... also that the phrase 'treat others how you would want to be treated' is good and I go by that nowadays. Kinda regained my fun outgoing personality back over the years, even though all I do most of the time is going on the internet and vidya gaemz.

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03-30-2011, 06:05 AM #5
TheRandomGuy128
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Originally posted by ClutchLikeJello
Your title is rather confusing.


yea I wasn't so sure how to write it up any ideas so i change it?
03-30-2011, 06:07 AM #6
TheRandomGuy128
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Originally posted by ClutchLikeJello
"What made you the way you are today"


Much better
03-30-2011, 06:12 AM #7
zvezper
Do a barrel roll!
love to fight at school cause ive been boxing since age 7 but stoped at 16..basically im a troublemaker lol
03-30-2011, 12:23 PM #8
NeedaLifeSoon
Retired Life
Attitude and Effort can be THE difference in life...
03-30-2011, 12:34 PM #9
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Well during my early years I lived in a small town and my family was happy. When my father lost his job he became a very angry person. My mom had to divorce when I was 7 so this was pretty harsh on my part especially since I didn't really know what was going on. After the divorce we had to move this was very hard for me since in school I had all my old friends I had to leave behind. At my new school I was bullied for months which made me extremely depressed, lonely and angry. Eventually I made some friends who had the same interests I did so now I have a more upbeat attitude towards life. Now I spend most of my time either playing video games or I'm on the internet.
03-30-2011, 12:42 PM #10
Well when I first came to school I was one of the normal guys, had short hair and didn't do much, I was kinda shy. Than in middle school I got longer hair, and some girls loved me, than I started being one of these "gigolos" you know, like being a cool guy, even though you are not one. Even though I was a known person in middle school I got sometimes bitched by some people because of my teeth, that's one of the reasons why I never ever laughed, just so people will not notice my teeth. 1 or 2 years later in a different school I started going out, and I started drinking. Through all these years I was a dedicated mountain biker, and I got better and better in mountain biking.

And here I am now, a 15 years old boy, long brown hair, tall and athletic.

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