Post: Need advice with a girl :/
05-10-2011, 11:11 AM #1
HecmanHD
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(adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); Ok so theres a girl and ive been noticing that sometimes she stares at me for some periods of time. For what I know she is a shy girl and doesnt talk to much, especially to boys No. She is very pretty and ive been planning to talk to her but I need help on how to talk to her for the first time since like I said earlier she is shy and I dont want to intimidate her or make her nervous and screw the moment.

Any suggestions will be appreciated and please dont hate comment or post immature and stupid comments.
Thanks in advance :y:
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05-10-2011, 11:27 AM #2
olboijoe
Space Ninja
Originally posted by HecmanHD View Post
Ok so theres a girl and ive been noticing that sometimes she stares at me for some periods of time. For what I know she is a shy girl and doesnt talk to much, especially to boys No. She is very pretty and ive been planning to talk to her but I need help on how to talk to her for the first time since like I said earlier she is shy and I dont want to intimidate her or make her nervous and screw the moment.

Any suggestions will be appreciated and please dont hate comment or post immature and stupid comments.
Thanks in advance :y:


Just be confident and just say 'Hi' everyday when you walk past her
then after few days go up to her and have a little conversation and try let her get to know you.
BE YOURSELF!!! don't pretend your someone who your not if that makes sense ?

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05-10-2011, 11:32 AM #3
Soldier.
The Legend
Originally posted by HecmanHD View Post
Ok so theres a girl and ive been noticing that sometimes she stares at me for some periods of time. For what I know she is a shy girl and doesnt talk to much, especially to boys No. She is very pretty and ive been planning to talk to her but I need help on how to talk to her for the first time since like I said earlier she is shy and I dont want to intimidate her or make her nervous and screw the moment.

Any suggestions will be appreciated and please dont hate comment or post immature and stupid comments.
Thanks in advance :y:


Do the same thing to her, stare back and hint a smile, look shy too. Maybe say hi if the chance comes. The thing with shy girls is more often than not they want you to approach them, make it apparent to her that you notice her and once she gets the idea that you like her too, you advances towards her are more likely to be welcomed. Cool Man (aka Tustin)

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05-10-2011, 12:12 PM #4
Wondoh
Former Staff
Originally posted by HecmanHD View Post
Ok so theres a girl and ive been noticing that sometimes she stares at me for some periods of time. For what I know she is a shy girl and doesnt talk to much, especially to boys No. She is very pretty and ive been planning to talk to her but I need help on how to talk to her for the first time since like I said earlier she is shy and I dont want to intimidate her or make her nervous and screw the moment.

Any suggestions will be appreciated and please dont hate comment or post immature and stupid comments.
Thanks in advance :y:

Look at her in class if your man enough give her a cheeky wink Awesome face If she has facebook or something talk to her on that if she is too shy to talk in school.
Just say Hi to her in school if you see her and stuff :y:
05-10-2011, 12:34 PM #5
RAGEVSFURY
Gym leader
Originally posted by HecmanHD View Post
Ok so theres a girl and ive been noticing that sometimes she stares at me for some periods of time. For what I know she is a shy girl and doesnt talk to much, especially to boys No. She is very pretty and ive been planning to talk to her but I need help on how to talk to her for the first time since like I said earlier she is shy and I dont want to intimidate her or make her nervous and screw the moment.

Any suggestions will be appreciated and please dont hate comment or post immature and stupid comments.
Thanks in advance :y:


Sounds like you're in a pretty good situation if a girl notices you first.
Go up to her,introduce yourself and start a conversation,get to know her..(smile and look into her eyes when you talk to her and don't ask personal questions,as to make her feel comfortable,not awkward)
After a minute or two,cut it short and end the conversation,saying you'll see her around..leave her wanting more..
As you mentioned she is kinda shy, so you want to ease into this encounter and not get her too excited.
You're testing the water to see if it's hot or cold.(testing to see if she has any interest in you.)
If she's really interested in you,no doubt she will want to see you again soon.
Next time you see her,go to her and strike up a conversation,saying things that make her laugh always helps.
Hopefully this will help add towards your confidence in meeting this "shy" girl hehe.
Good Luck bud.Winky Winky

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05-10-2011, 01:55 PM #6
I_BULLET_I
Fcuk Do I Put Here
Fakin Get In There :y:
05-10-2011, 02:34 PM #7
malik-ramires
The German One
Who old are you and the Girl???
05-10-2011, 07:30 PM #8
HecmanHD
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Originally posted by ramires View Post
Who old are you and the Girl???


Im 15 and she's 14 Smile

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Originally posted by Wondoh View Post
Look at her in class if your man enough give her a cheeky wink Awesome face If she has facebook or something talk to her on that if she is too shy to talk in school.
Just say Hi to her in school if you see her and stuff :y:

lol one friend of mine told me exactly what you said, thanks
05-10-2011, 07:31 PM #9
malik-ramires
The German One
Originally posted by HecmanHD View Post
Im 15 and she's 14 Smile

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lol one friend of mine told me exactly what you said, thanks


Try to figure out what she likes..If she has girlfriends talk to them...They will find it sweet but make sure they leak no information Happy So if her friends like you and she already noticed you,your chances are good Sir
05-10-2011, 07:32 PM #10
HecmanHD
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Originally posted by RAGEVSFURY View Post
Sounds like you're in a pretty good situation if a girl notices you first.
Go up to her,introduce yourself and start a conversation,get to know her..(smile and look into her eyes when you talk to her and don't ask personal questions,as to make her feel comfortable,not awkward)
After a minute or two,cut it short and end the conversation,saying you'll see her around..leave her wanting more..
As you mentioned she is kinda shy, so you want to ease into this encounter and not get her too excited.
You're testing the water to see if it's hot or cold.(testing to see if she has any interest in you.)
If she's really interested in you,no doubt she will want to see you again soon.
Next time you see her,go to her and strike up a conversation,saying things that make her laugh always helps.
Hopefully this will help add towards your confidence in meeting this "shy" girl hehe.
Good Luck bud.Winky Winky


im fine until the conversation part :/ I tend to get a little shy when talking to girls :( any suggestion on how to start a conversation that does not look ovbious???

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