Post: Why do Girls do this! Argh!
09-30-2011, 11:36 AM #1
Antones
Blood of Innocence
(adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); Ok, I know I shouldnt really resort to postings things like this on a Gaming Website but I just want to see what your thoughts are on this.

Anywho, Im 16 now, 17 Next week and Ive known this girl for around 4-5months now, Im just gonna call her Suzie whilst on here. Starting over the summer holidays. Me and her (Suzie) and a bunch of other friends went to out local theme park the second week of being off school (Ive finished school now). Anyways She just tagged on with her cousin, Im really good mates with her cousin so she invited her to the theme park. We had a good time and all that shit Yay! The day later I was on skype with all my mates and her cousin came on saying Ohh yeah She likes you (Suzie Likes me) So I was like cool, So we all kept going out having a good time and I was gettin closer to her each day, By that I mean like sharing intrests and becoming good mates etc etc. Because of this a week before we went back to our own ways, she went back to school for her last year and I started college. I told her I liked her, She was made up and very relieved, After her mates telling me she was over the moon and couldnt wait to get in a relationship with me. However I was going to ask her out sometime next week near or around my bday. And I recieve a text message from her close mate saying this is what Suzie said . It said 'I really like him but I dont want to be with anyone at my age, Im too busy at the minute. And it feels like im rushing into things, I just dont want a Boyfriend. If he asked I dunno what Id do, I think he should leave it longer for him to ask me' I knew that came from her due to the language etc. Despite her wanting to be with me and that And I was gonna ask her out she says that! Why do girls do it. Its soo f**king annoying. The longer I leave it and she leaves it we will probz both loose interest. I just don't know what to do anymore tbh.
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09-30-2011, 02:15 PM #11
Sert
Al Capone, Jr.
Shes mind ****ing you right now, do the same to her, take her best friend out on a date, treat her like a goddess, then leave. I bet anything that will start a "bidding war" on you, between the two chicks. Chicks play mind games, our only defense as men is to play mind games right back. Act not interested one day, super interested the next, keep her guessing. If it were me though, Id ignore that girl due to the fact shes playing these games on you, if she does end up coming after you say, " you done playing these mind games on me? " Move forward.
09-30-2011, 02:19 PM #12
yeah dude, ask her.
10-05-2011, 05:38 AM #13
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aalina
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You have to talk with any of her friend who is close to her, because her close friend know her know her very well so just tell her that she talks about this matter with her . so that she will further explain you that what she has in her mind about you . and whats she want from you . and finally you also ask her face to face that whats she want and what is her problem
10-05-2011, 05:58 AM #14
Pichu
RIP PICHU.
Originally posted by NeedaLifeSoon View Post
Ask her out already.
She may just be saying that to her friends because you made her wait all summer and she doesn't want to look stupid waiting so long.


I lost my chance with a girl I really like, :/

I still like her and I think she still has some interest but the amount that we used to talk compared to now is little to none. Used to be stay up all night and chat, send pictures and stuff.

So stupid for not asking, now when I see her it seems like I get somewhat of interest but just a little more than what any other girl gives. (BTW, I've never dated/kissed any of that stuff before...)
10-05-2011, 01:59 PM #15
burton992
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Originally posted by AntiXHaze View Post
Ok, I know I shouldnt really resort to postings things like this on a Gaming Website but I just want to see what your thoughts are on this.

Anywho, Im 16 now, 17 Next week and Ive known this girl for around 4-5months now, Im just gonna call her Suzie whilst on here. Starting over the summer holidays. Me and her (Suzie) and a bunch of other friends went to out local theme park the second week of being off school (Ive finished school now). Anyways She just tagged on with her cousin, Im really good mates with her cousin so she invited her to the theme park. We had a good time and all that shit Yay! The day later I was on skype with all my mates and her cousin came on saying Ohh yeah She likes you (Suzie Likes me) So I was like cool, So we all kept going out having a good time and I was gettin closer to her each day, By that I mean like sharing intrests and becoming good mates etc etc. Because of this a week before we went back to our own ways, she went back to school for her last year and I started college. I told her I liked her, She was made up and very relieved, After her mates telling me she was over the moon and couldnt wait to get in a relationship with me. However I was going to ask her out sometime next week near or around my bday. And I recieve a text message from her close mate saying this is what Suzie said . It said 'I really like him but I dont want to be with anyone at my age, Im too busy at the minute. And it feels like im rushing into things, I just dont want a Boyfriend. If he asked I dunno what Id do, I think he should leave it longer for him to ask me' I knew that came from her due to the language etc. Despite her wanting to be with me and that And I was gonna ask her out she says that! Why do girls do it. Its soo f**king annoying. The longer I leave it and she leaves it we will probz both loose interest. I just don't know what to do anymore tbh.


Play the game mate. Dont phone her text her or nothing show no interest what so ever. This is her tactic to make you feel like shit, girls do this stuff. If she likes you enough she will come running to you, they always do. Don't let it get on your mind pal, women are strange things. Plus dude your only 16 nearly 17 you don't want to be in a relationship, get yourself a few girls and keep them where you want them Winky Winky
10-05-2011, 02:22 PM #16
NeedaLifeSoon
Retired Life
Opportunity comes to your house and knocks on your door.
Do you peek out your window and it sees the curtains move.
You continue to peek out your window until it gets back in it's car and starts to drive away.
Then you run outside and expect it to stop and get out?

It's off to someone else's house who is not afraid to answer the door.

Whenever it knocks on your door, throughout your life, answer the door right away.
It doesn't stand there for long!!

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10-07-2011, 01:40 PM #17
Scram Horizon
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It's called a sh*t test. She doesn't want to come off as extremely interested. She wants you to feel like you are chasing, ask her out if you feel it's right but don't come off like she's your only choice, it's what she wants. As said though, If you don't care that much there is plenty of other women.
10-08-2011, 08:09 PM #18
Clouds
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Originally posted by AntiXHaze View Post
Ok, I know I shouldnt really resort to postings things like this on a Gaming Website but I just want to see what your thoughts are on this.

Anywho, Im 16 now, 17 Next week and Ive known this girl for around 4-5months now, Im just gonna call her Suzie whilst on here. Starting over the summer holidays. Me and her (Suzie) and a bunch of other friends went to out local theme park the second week of being off school (Ive finished school now). Anyways She just tagged on with her cousin, Im really good mates with her cousin so she invited her to the theme park. We had a good time and all that shit Yay! The day later I was on skype with all my mates and her cousin came on saying Ohh yeah She likes you (Suzie Likes me) So I was like cool, So we all kept going out having a good time and I was gettin closer to her each day, By that I mean like sharing intrests and becoming good mates etc etc. Because of this a week before we went back to our own ways, she went back to school for her last year and I started college. I told her I liked her, She was made up and very relieved, After her mates telling me she was over the moon and couldnt wait to get in a relationship with me. However I was going to ask her out sometime next week near or around my bday. And I recieve a text message from her close mate saying this is what Suzie said . It said 'I really like him but I dont want to be with anyone at my age, Im too busy at the minute. And it feels like im rushing into things, I just dont want a Boyfriend. If he asked I dunno what Id do, I think he should leave it longer for him to ask me' I knew that came from her due to the language etc. Despite her wanting to be with me and that And I was gonna ask her out she says that! Why do girls do it. Its soo f**king annoying. The longer I leave it and she leaves it we will probz both loose interest. I just don't know what to do anymore tbh.


Look, man. Ask her out while you can. It can't hurt to do. I wait too damn long and then I get pushed aside. Go for it. I hate dealing with relationship shit. I'm always a f*ck up when it comes to it.
10-11-2011, 07:12 PM #19
Become fu*k buddys

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