(adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); Hey guys Dabbi here with a short story about a girl that i like, and i want your answer, No trolls. No Hatin.

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There is this girl lets call her "Sara". So i've known Sara for a long time, didn't start talking to her much until 2007 and then i was 11 years old and she was 12, we were often outside playing soccer with friends from our town, yeah we live in a small town. and then i started to like her in 2008 and we were still going outside to play soccer and i always walked with her to the pitch (the place where we play soccer) and then i felt uncomfortable because i didn't know shit to talk about, at that time there were awkward silence's and i hated that. We went outside once, Me Sara and her girlfriend that was 2 years older than me and 1 year older than her we went to the playground, it all started by the evening we were 3 of us and another kids playing soccer and we had fun then i came home to facebook and started to talk to her and she asked me if i wanted to come to the playground and the time was 00:00, so it was kind of late for a 12 year old boy but i went anyway. When i got there Sara and her friend (lets call her "Kate" ) sat in the swings and i sat into another swing that was like 3-5 meters away from where they sat. That night we didn't talk about much the most said word was "Awkward Silence" and then they laughed.

So now it is 2009 and i still liked Sara but i never told her about it.
We were always chatting on MSN we both had webcams and we had fun and laughed and we talked ALOT! like i started talking to her at 16:00 and we went to sleep at like 01:00 (9 hours, or less.) We did that often in the winter time, didn't go out much because the weather was shitty so i just talked to her on MSN and sometimes we met in school and that was kinda awkward, i never said nothing. But when talking on MSN we could talk for hours and that feeling was awesome. She was always asking me if she was cute and i always said "Yes you are cute! Very cute" I always said.
In the summer of 2009 we went again to play soccer and we had fun and we played alot, and i walked with her sometimes to the pitch and it was getting a little bit comfortable talking to her but still awkward silences. Me Sara and Kate went again to the playground and it was still so awkward but we talked about something that i cant remember about and we did that 2 times that summer i think.

So in 2010 i could talk to Sara little bit more but we still talked alot more on Facebook/MSN and it was fun I still liked her at the time and we went to play soccer alot and with her friend Kate we went to the playground and talked about more and more things but still it was kind of awkward.
At that time i started to like her Facebook profile pictures and talking to her like in more flirty way like saying that she is Cute and stuff. Then when i was in school everywas saying that Me and Sara were a couple or like You like Sara and i denied. But yeah in that year at the cafeteria in school i started to make eye contacts and like make some faces and she smiled and i smiled and i really liked her at that moment. But i was always a friend of her i think, but i liked her and never told her. But when her friend Kate asked me if i liked her i said Yes so she must'ave said something to her, i dont know. But yeah we started talking little bit more face to face and i liked it but still there were awkward silences.

Now in 2011 going to make a little story about 2011.
In the winter we just talked on Facebook and sometimes in school like i would play pool with her or something. We still made the eye contact in the cafeteria and i liked it and i started talking more to her on facebook and face to face and at the moment i really liked her! So the summer has come and we were playing soccer she always asked me if i wanted to come out, and she always told me to ask a close friend of mine (lets call him "John" ) and he always came to the pitch with us and there were alot of kids there to, and at that moment i still liked Sara but i kind of knew that she liked John because on her "Formspring" there was a question about who is the cutes guy in the class i am in and she always said John never mentioned me, she only mentioned me when there was like who is the who is the most funny/friendly guy in the class, and i was always the answer.
She was starting to tell me about some guys that she thought were cute and i just said okey why dont u talk to him, something like that. And i still liked her but i didn't say anything, i spent alot of time with her that summer and I had a great time. But now in the past month she has been getting feelings for a guy in another town ( Lets call him "Peter", close to mine where i play soccer with, Peter practises with me everyweek and it just kills me to see him but i hide me feelings. I always say to him like Peter you hussliin Sara and he always laughs, and he is talking alot about Sara to me. But i like Sara so, and i asked Sara on the facebook chat if she liked him and she said "Who knows" and i said "i know" she said good for you. The next day i walked with her to school and i called her Sara and the last name of Peter and she was like shut up and we were laughing and stuff and i just really like her and i thinks she likes me also because she likes my photos on facebook and always talks to me on facebook and wants me to walk with her to school and we have a great time.

So fellow NGU People,
am i friendzoned?
How do i get her to like me?
I AM MAD <3

wtf this was so weird for me to read cause my gf name is sara and i met her in 2008 and she plays soccer lol wtf i thought this was my life story for a second
Anyway for your part.
get her to not like the other guys so it makes you look good haha

Just ask her if she likes you in that way and then you can stop driving yourself crazy. Telling a girl you like them isn't as hard as you might think.

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Im a liar what?

but yeah i like that girl but i am not ready for some relationship but on the same side i still want her to be my friend :/

You said it was a short story but it's so long.

If you like her then ask her out, if you don't like her then don't ask her out. Simples.

Go around and talk to a few other girls when she is near you and see how she reacts, if she gets nervous or is acting wierd when you do that then she likes you. Simple man try that :y:

Post pics or get negged.

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That was very well written and you are a conflicted guy.
You're not ready for a relationship? But think of her fir years?

Ask out a girl that you don't really care about.
Sara may be able to see you in a different light.

Maybe you can see her in a different light as well.

But if you really care about her, you are setting yourself up for a lot more angst if you remain her friend only.

I honestly don't know why more people don't ask a girl out that they don't care as much about.
It is good practice for the ones that you do like, and if a girl you don't really care about says no, who cares?

I am thinking that i should just stay friends with her and just try to not like her. And focus on other girls.



Here is the girl You must login or register to view this content. she is so cute!

Her eyes are too far apart. Nose is definitely crooked. The shape of herr face is not aesthetically pleasing at all. She looks like a 3/10 with make up in this photo. I don't even want to imagine what she looks like without make up. I actually just threw up in my mouth, just thinking about it.

Herr head is too big (although that may be, because of herr giraffe neck posture). As for herr hair, lol. Seriously, she needs to do something. She looks like a horse.

Stare at herr face for more than 5 seconds, and you will see how ugly she is. The eyes which are too far apart is what ruins/damages an already ugly face even further. Unfortunately for her, that can't be surgically fixed, lol.

Her arms are way too long. lol at how they hang by her sides. Kind of reminds me of lurch. As for her tits, we all know there is extra padding there. Don't even let me start on herr pale complexion. It only works if you look hot. Unfortunately, she does not look hot. Its hard to sum up a creature like her in one word. 'UGLY' would be unfair, since it doesn't reflect how repulsive she looks. GROTESQUE is stretching it. But somewhere in between, is where she would be, on the scale of an average woman.

I'm sorry if my words seem a little harsh. Just so you know, I sugar coated this post as much as possible.

Have a nice day.

it's a sad day when i have to include in one of my posts that it's a joke. op even knows it himself.[/b]