Originally posted by xinfectedsoulx
I agree with this guy in a little way. I mean, does it matter who loses there virginity and when? I know someone who was 24 when they lost theirs and know someone who is 21 who still has theirs. It doesn't change them though yet people seem to think it does. However, when he said "I'm choosing to wait until marriage", key word choosing, I laughed and thought, 'You're not choosing, you just can't get laid so you're trying to defend yourself.'
Unless he was a devout Catholic, I could understand, but I can't see why anyone who isn't would choose to, unless like I said, can't get laid so they try and defend themselves to make them feel better.
Almost 18, still a virgin. I have anxiety issues that I am trying to get through when it comes to cute girls I like. Found the only way for me to pass it is to get excited and then I lose all anxiety.
Made my first steps by kissing the girl I've had a massive crush on for 2 years now yesterday right before our graduation, got good reacting results and now some friends, me and her are all going to a pizza/gaming place to spend a couple hours at where hopefully I can man the fuck up again and ask her out...
I agree, "Choosing until marriage", I hear that all the time, man the fuck up and say you can't get any girls to have sex. If he would have stated "It's against my morals" or some sort like that, that is a more powerful statement than just choice which implies exactly what you stated.
I for one know I can get laid if I just get over my anxiety, which I feel after being with a girl for the first time (Relationship), will hopefully kill that anxiety I have.
But as for me, I have the idea that the first time with anything has to be with the right person, so for me, I just kissed a girl for the first time, with someone who I really really like, I wouldn't have wasted that on someone who I didn't like because you remember first times and last times more than anything.
Sex will be the same with me, I want it to be with someone who I love and someone who loves me back. After that, I don't think I will give a crap because it's not the same as the first time if you know what I mean.