Post: Need Advice (Please Don't Troll)
08-21-2012, 01:40 PM #1
Crunk
Sir, I'm too 1337
(adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); I'm in need of some serious advice.

Some of you guys may have noticed me mention about this in the sb last night. Well I'm having an issue with this girl...well she isn't just some girl, she's my bestfriend and the love of my life.

Recently she and I went to an amusement park together, we saw a friend of ours. She worried about if this girl was going to spread rumors, since she has a boyfriend and I explained to her she wouldn't.Well that isn't the problem, just a little background info, the problem..actually I don't know if its a problem, is the night we went to the amusement park she told asked me if it was wrong to flirt with someone she sees as a brother, but has feelings for. Remember she has a boyfriend. I knew she was talking about me, so I told her we aren't blood related so No.

Last night we were talking and now she's probably coming over Sunday. Which makes me the happiest guy on Earth, but she has a boyfriend. Oh and I forgot to add that night she asked me that, she told me she wanted to kiss me during one of the rides and I told her I wanted to, too.

She told me we're eachother's dirty secret. Guys I'm at this moral vs desire war. I don't know what to do, this girl is the girl I want to spend the rest of my life with, but do I really want to start our relationship in secrecy? I'm just majorly confused.

Could someone please give me some sort of advice.

EDIT: I don't know how I forgot to mention this and I'm not even sure if it matters, but when I asked her why we don't go out, she told me because she sees me as a brother, but has deep feelings for me. She just doesn't wanna mess up our friendship. Because she loves me too much. I asked her if she saw us together in the future, she told me she does. Also I understand a lot of you guys aren't meaning to insult her, but she is a wonderful person, I love her more than anything in the world and she the same, I know she would never do anything to purposely hurt me. I would never do anything to purposely hurt her. I love her. She is my grĂ¡nde amorĂ©
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08-21-2012, 07:45 PM #11
JP
Israeli/Palestinian Unity
With the edit, if she says she see's you together in the future, take it slow then. Just flirt with her, but don't over do it. Pay special attention to her. You'll be with her in the end, but rushing it will fuck things up.

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