Originally posted by Tebow
INB4 TD;LR
Story sorta drags on...tried to shorten it... Read the spoiler first
I had this girl that I liked back in February, told her I liked her back in like May & and asked her out...she said "no because I don't date over the summer" But I really think that it was because she wanted this other guy...
So I was like fuck it and went on with my life all summer, and then, come school time like 4 weeks ago, she texts me and says "do you still, like me?" I say "yeah sorta, y", mostly just to see her reply, and she said "because its good to know the guy i like likes me back"
I ain't have time for that bull, but I didn't say hell no... I was nice with it and just sorta payed it no attention. So now she has invited me to her birthday party this Saturday, and I figure if I go, I'd have to bring her a gift, she'll figure I still wanted her...etc...
So there's this new girl, her name is Andrea, and I really like her and wanna go for her, but I don't wanna look like an asshole, because if the one birthday party I'm going sees me with this new girl, she'll never speak to me again...and if I choose the birthday girl, the new girl wont ever speak to me again...
What I am trying to ask is, should I just completely forget about the birthday girl and go after the new one? Or vice versa?
Tebow Mania,
Man, I know it's going to sound like I'm preaching to you on this, but this is the best I could come up with, and I'm sorry if this doesn't help that much, but there is something in side of everyone that tells them what and what not to do. Your mind says "No" but your heart says "Yes". Always listen to your heart. Believe me, it tells you a lot more then what you think it does, you just have to listen to it, and it will tell you which girl, you are truly in love with.
You always go for the one your heart tells you to go to and it will. It might be hard to figure out which one, but in the end, in pays off big time. You go after the one that you think you love and forget about the rest. In my opinion, you can only truly love 1 person at a time in relationships.
I wish you the best of luck, and hope you make the right choice man. Sorry if this didn't help that much, but it was the best I could do bud. Good luck again!