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I have just been in my first relationship, it lasted almost 4 months and things may pick back up again if I'm lucky but the way it looks they wont do. The purpose of this thread was for me to ask peoples opinions on matters such as;


Only reason I wanted to make this thread was I'm depressed and confused as of now, any opinions help me.
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Cheating: is honestly so low, i dont know why anyone would cheat, like if you are going to cheat then atleast let the other person know you arent intrested in them that way they can get out of you life and it wont be cheating.

Rumors & friends of the opposite sex (ties in with trust): id say rumors are horrible thats what starts the fights. and i know from experience that girls that have friends of opposite sex are better partners because they can talk about things with them that they might not with you(in general) and it makes the relationship better, unless the BF gets jealous.

Getting back together : this is just stupid. you(in general) broke up for a reason, it didnt work out, what makes you think itlll work out the second time.

Staying friends after etc : This only works for some people, only if they have a rally good bond.

Ehhhhh, make money, fuck bitches nuff said. In all honesty, in a relationship their should be total trust. If you guys don't trust each other it won't work out. If someone Cheats you cheat also AND THAN break up with them. Plenty of women in the sea, just gtta find the right one.

Turns out my gf did cheat, I am better off without her. She won't find someone like me again, her best friend was saying shes made a huge mistake

Used to be sad that I haven't had a relationship yet, let alone kissed a girl. Just saw several friends break up from a relationship after high school ended, either they moved on, they cheated or they got into fights.

There is only 1 friend that I know of that still is in a relationship and they have been together since middle school, (6-1/2 years now).

Aside from that, wait until you are in college because you are just going to get your heart broken. Plus, there is a lot more understanding people.

Honestly I don't think that this is rocket science. If you do not trust each other it is not going to work out. With this in mind, it is absolutely normal to think the worse (cheating of course) and that it is normal to have suspicious of the partner exploring beyond the current relationship. Personally, I learn a woman before I get too close. I'm relatively old fashioned about relationships and I don't prefer to do things like "fuk bitches get money" and "yolo" shit. I honestly get into a relationship because being around her makes me feel like a completely different person, not because I want sex.
It's bound to happen, maybe not in all relationships, but there's usually a reason for it. It can happen when people enter a relationship to quickly or have no real regard for each others emotions. They are in the relationship only for sex and really don't LOVE each other. They are more just like two horny rabbits who were left along in a cage. They don't really care about each other, they pretend to. Obviously not all cheating occurs like this, in some cases, the cheating is something that occurs because of a fantasy. Perhaps they have been hurt and do not know what to do. But most people who cheat know exactly what they are getting into.
If I get into a relationship, I already know that I trust this peson and that I love them for what I have come to know them for. Some people cannot say the same things about their partners. Having Rumours being spread around is EXTREMELY common amongst relationships, especially in places like high school. You know how I would deal with rumours Show her off. Hold her hand in public and kiss her in front of people I know. People will stop spreading rumours if you don't care about them. If you are REALLY suspicious you can confront her about them.
It's possible, but really only will happen in serious, or in shallow relationships. If they are truly committed and they realize they messed up, sure it can be possible. The same thing goes for relationships that are prone to fail from the start, they get back together for sex.

I am the same as you, this was the most helpful post.

Turns out my gf of 4 months cheated on me, broke up with me, got with the bot she cheated on me with for about a week, broke up with him and is already seeing someone else, yet all this time she was really serious about me (or so it seemed), worst thing is both these boys are complete chavs and utter cunts, I've had people tell me since the break up she didnt deserve me cause I'm a genuine person, I'd never cheat or anything cause it would destroy the other person if they cared as much as I do.

We had discussed having sex and were going to when we got a free house (shes 15 im 16 so its a big deal at this age, your first time) only reason we didnt is she hit her period when we were going to. But she had no respect for me, her best friend who is also my best friend told me all of those details because this self bitch couldnt have enough decency to tell me herself.


I'm done with this selfish back stabbing slagish bitch, if she wants to be with some cunts she can be a cunt with them

Well I ended it with my girlfriend for no reason, which was stupid of me and were now back together. But we are right for each other and that's what matters. Also TRUST.

She ended it for cheating with on me, and some personal stuff neither of which she told me. I really loved her as well, so I guess I'm going to be depressed for a while, I trusted her 100% and now i know she doesnt want me at all, it is a horrible feeling,