Originally posted by SlimShadyXV
So I've known this girl for 4 or 5 years but we've only been talking for 2 years. I like her, but I'm not so sure if she likes me. About 70% of the time I hit her up first but about 70% of the time it is her that starts a conversation. What leads me to the question if she likes me is that she likes to send me voice messages (iMessage) or call me, and its always her that calls me, I never call her. But it is always at night time when she calls me. Our conversations range literally from her day, to stories about her and past events, to what she has in her kitchen. When we're on the phone, it is for HOURS. The other night we were on the phone from 12am to 6 am non stop. She loves to tell me stories, and ask me about my love life. She always asks if there is another girl out there I'm seeing (of course its her) but me not sure how she would react, I don't tell her. What makes me think she doesn't like me is that she sometimes takes a while to respond and when I text her multiple times when she hasn't texted back, she says I'm so sensitive and clingy (that's who I am, I'm always clingy). So really I believe she just texts me when she feels like it, but when she does, it can get real personal. Another thing that may be important is that she always likes to tease me/make fun of me and call me names like "butthole", and say it is a term of endearment. My nightmare is that i am friendzoned. If I am, i might as well kill myself (joking obviously). So do you think she likes me? Comment any questions you have with her and I, and I'll answer to the best of my ability. Thanks
just shoot your shot, worst that happens is she says no, and then you move on.