Ok first of all what you do is open the program Console manager.
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Then click file
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Then add new console
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Name the console to what ever you want
and put your PS3 Ip in the ip adress box (you can get this by going to rebug toolbox and clicking system info)
Once done you right click on the console you just added and click connect. And you are done