K every One i figured it out what i do anyways is i set up the one i want to transfer to first then the one i want to transfer and start the one to transfer to first it will say something like set ps3 to transfer, while its doing that start the one to transfer from like click transfer from this device then click ok untill it sais wating for transfer then go back to the other one and restart the transfer process and it should work it worked for me but now my friend toulk back his old ps3 over a disagrement so im going to buy another one on 3.41 so i can host lobbies for mw2 and blackops when patches come out. If it doesn't work message me and i will try to help