Originally posted by whitestorm1000
Have a friend invite you to their party, then they select private match. You will be in a lobby, but only the host (your friend) can start the game (there is no ready up option). Your friend (the person who can start the game) will be host of the connection. So basically, make sure you join other people and then they select private match.
You would think he should have got it with the first comment, what does he think? OMG everyone has 4 bar connection WTF we're all host......