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and go to the last page then add someone who is hosting a lobby. Once you join their game, backout then make your own private match. Then tada! Then message your friends and tell them to join.

+rep if that was a good tutorial

just get into a lobby with hax so u get them and wen u host lobby it will be exactly same as one u got them from