Post: How do I get over the girl of my dreams?
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02-19-2010, 08:14 PM
#21
Antones
Blood of Innocence
Originally posted by xXviciousbumXx
dude don/t look for a gf just look for a friend with benefits. u dont need to have a gf to do sexual things and such.
Btw if your friend is really your friend its the F***ing Bro code. Your bff shouldn't be an A$$hole and go after the girl you like. he is not a true friend to you. You got to put your foot down and push him away from her. You got to grow a sack and get your girl back. She is just F***ing with your head. She wants to see if your willing to go a little further to get her back. Talk to your boy first and tell him to back off. Your 15 and my guess in high school so you should stand your ground now and not let people walk all over you. If you really like her don't just let her go. If you try this and it really doesnt work, then ditch your friend because hes a douschebag and go get with another girl. Im sure your attracted to some other girl in your school. lol
Btw if your friend is really your friend its the F***ing Bro code. Your bff shouldn't be an A$$hole and go after the girl you like. he is not a true friend to you. You got to put your foot down and push him away from her. You got to grow a sack and get your girl back. She is just F***ing with your head. She wants to see if your willing to go a little further to get her back. Talk to your boy first and tell him to back off. Your 15 and my guess in high school so you should stand your ground now and not let people walk all over you. If you really like her don't just let her go. If you try this and it really doesnt work, then ditch your friend because hes a douschebag and go get with another girl. Im sure your attracted to some other girl in your school. lol
Quailty Bro. ****in quailty
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02-19-2010, 08:58 PM
#24
Jesseeee
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Honestly, getting over a girl is never easy.
I'll tell you now: she isn't the girl of your dreams. If she was, she wouldn't be fucking with you the way she is. I understand that you "love" her. I know exactly how it feels to think that you're in love. The reality of it is, love is not wanting nothing more than someone to be yours, it is wanting nothing more than to be someone's. Teenagers (oh and, I'm sixteen; I'm a teenager myself) often tend to feel as if the world is over when they lose someone they think they love. Then, lo and behold, someone else sweeps them off their feet and the cycle begins again.
My suggestion to you, OP, is to simply direct your attention to other things. Take some time to learn how to love yourself - go out and do your favorite things. The only real way to ease the pain of a broken heart is to find someone new. I know it sounds difficult, but open your eyes to other people! There are bigger and better things than her. There are 3,386,509,865 (estimate) girls in the world. You'll have plenty of different relationships as you age (you're only fifteen). You'll find plenty of other girls - just take this opportunity, now that you're single, to flirt! Have fun with your life.
Just take the time to hang out with friends. You can have girls who are just friends - you don't need to be committed to one person. You can have fun (sexual pleasure, too!) with just a friend with benefits.
Oh and, believe me, once you meet the person you were meant to be with, you'll understand why no one else ever worked. You'll understand why this girl likes your best friend instead of you. If she truly is the one for you, you'll want nothing but her to be happy, and if your best friend makes her happy, all you can do is be happy for her.
I'll tell you now: she isn't the girl of your dreams. If she was, she wouldn't be fucking with you the way she is. I understand that you "love" her. I know exactly how it feels to think that you're in love. The reality of it is, love is not wanting nothing more than someone to be yours, it is wanting nothing more than to be someone's. Teenagers (oh and, I'm sixteen; I'm a teenager myself) often tend to feel as if the world is over when they lose someone they think they love. Then, lo and behold, someone else sweeps them off their feet and the cycle begins again.
My suggestion to you, OP, is to simply direct your attention to other things. Take some time to learn how to love yourself - go out and do your favorite things. The only real way to ease the pain of a broken heart is to find someone new. I know it sounds difficult, but open your eyes to other people! There are bigger and better things than her. There are 3,386,509,865 (estimate) girls in the world. You'll have plenty of different relationships as you age (you're only fifteen). You'll find plenty of other girls - just take this opportunity, now that you're single, to flirt! Have fun with your life.
Just take the time to hang out with friends. You can have girls who are just friends - you don't need to be committed to one person. You can have fun (sexual pleasure, too!) with just a friend with benefits.
Oh and, believe me, once you meet the person you were meant to be with, you'll understand why no one else ever worked. You'll understand why this girl likes your best friend instead of you. If she truly is the one for you, you'll want nothing but her to be happy, and if your best friend makes her happy, all you can do is be happy for her.
02-19-2010, 11:28 PM
#25
drunkenrepublicn
NGU Retired Staff
Originally posted by zzuBuzz
Well yes. The girl I really like doesnt like me no more. And tbh i want to get over her. But its soo hard to do so. Any ideas how i can?
FU** her friend, this will get under her skin and it'll make you feel good for about 15-30 min. LMAO, sorry, its just going to take time and several other women to get her off your mind
02-20-2010, 05:39 AM
#27
TheFrozenArrow
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