Post: NGU, I need All Your Help :'(
03-05-2010, 12:01 PM #1
Goone
Looking for Suzzy
(adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); Here's the story; My mom met this guy that we've been living with for 8 years. I'm 15(16 this year) and moved in when I was 8. I thought we were all family now.

Either way, my mom was, which made me happy aswell. Recently, went on vacation, and for a week he was gone. Anyways, his mom got sick. Not sure into details, I heard my mom and him argueing last night about it. When he came back a week ago, my mom had forgot to tell him about it. He's acusing my mom of not caring as if HIS mom wasn't important. My mom tried defending herself with no avail.

Today, I wake up for school, and my mother walks in with a weary, heartbroken face.

He wants us to move out. This has happened before, he says it sometimes as a joke, but he really does now. And so does HIS mom. I've been living here for 8 years, I'm 15, 16 year old sister, and have bonded with my 18 year old step brother. We are family, or to the extent at which I thought we were.

I need to know what to do guys, I'm not crying, because I know I will always be with my family; even through the roughest times.

EDIT: Guys, I can't go to a reliatives house. Firstly, I don't want to. My mom's side of the family lives in Albania(near greece) and I live in Cananda. Secondly, my fathers side is just a no. I haven't talked to him in 10 years so don't go down this route. My mother is currently out house shopping. I called my step-dad and he said it's not about me or anything.. they just are both agreeing it;'s not working out too well.
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03-05-2010, 12:08 PM #2
VerTDznS
the original Vertigo
first i think u and ur family shud go stay at a relatives house. then i would try to solve the feud between ur step father. maybe take his mother to lunch or something and show some sympathy. but im only 14 so idk lol. but yea. thats wat i would do.

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drunkenrepublicn
03-05-2010, 12:40 PM #3
They'll get over it eventually. Just a bad argument. I suggest doing the above ^^. Go and stay w/ some relatives until it all cools down a bit.

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drunkenrepublicn
03-05-2010, 01:15 PM #4
or you could put magic mushrooms in there dinner and make them do what ever you want like that guy on youth in revolt , but that sucks bro on a serious note , i dont personally think theres anything you can do , maybe express to your step father you feelings , i know i personally have expressed my feelings to my step father and he's still here ¬_¬ even if i dont particularly like him.
03-05-2010, 01:53 PM #5
jbot
Vbux are Worthless
Like dizziness said, go to a relatives house and work out a plan to stay there for a little while. If anything, you guys could get a cheap apartment somewhere. If no luck talking to your stepfather then i don't think theres much your can do. I would have like a heart to heart talk with him though. You should be like " Hey, i have to talk to you. Then explain how your mom feels etc." If he still dosn't understand after than then finding an apartment wouldn't seem like a bad idea. Theres no reason for you to follow what im saying since i hardly know you, but its just a suggestion my friend.
03-05-2010, 10:16 PM #6
There is nothing you can do...It's your moms issue and not yours..Just got to be there for your mom
03-05-2010, 10:22 PM #7
everyone agrees with dizziness Smile
03-06-2010, 12:09 AM #8
ps3-dude
Who’s Jim Erased?
what does your step brother think of it?
03-06-2010, 12:20 AM #9
iDave
Banned
Pretty stupid reason.. If he is willing to just ask you guys to move out, and not worth things out after 8 years. Is he really worth all this trouble?

I hope things improve..
03-06-2010, 04:17 AM #10
deathkid1212
I’m too L33T
Here is what you should do:
Step 1: get a chainsaw or shotgun
Step 2: kill all of them
Step 3: avoid the police by going to another country thats not that good; like mexico
Step 4: Stay there for 10 years
Step 5: go back to the US, start a new life.
Theres how to solve your problem in 5 easy steps.
But seriously, go to a relatives house like Dizziness said

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