Post: How do I behave?
05-11-2010, 03:30 PM #1
(adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); I'm a bad behaved student at school and now I'm on my last legs.

I cant magically ''behave'' any ideas that wont make me swear at teachers ect. Personally it isnt my fault because.... it just isnt?


Anyway help meeee.Eek
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05-11-2010, 03:37 PM #2
drunkenrepublicn
NGU Retired Staff
If you are on medication take it daily or as subscribed. If not here is some advise on how I succeed durning school.
1) Be respectful to the teachers and adults-this helps out the most
2) dress more respectful-this will help with the teachers who are more set in the old ways
3) If you do something wrong, make sure you tell the truth-believe it or not the truth helps out more then lieing
4) Make sure no one knows what you've done-bragging about yourself may or may not bring unwanted attention from your elders
5) Only do stupid sh!t with people you trust-Most people get in trouble by their so called friends that tell on you to cover their own ass'. Make sure the people around you are truely your friends.

Believe it or not it is your fault, many people are hypoactive and its up to them on how they deal with it. You may want to see a shrink or get help with anger management/depression. It may help

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05-11-2010, 03:41 PM #3
eDeityy
NGU's Resident Author
After I got arrested, I was court ordered to attend anger management sessions.

I'm on an anti-depressant called Imipramine that helps regulate my irritability along with my anxiety (although it can act solely as anger management). This, combined with some basic anger management techniques, keeps me out of trouble.

The next time you feel yourself getting angry:

  • Take deep breaths. It may not seem like it helps, but it does.
  • Remove yourself from the situation. Give yourself time to think.
  • Consider the consequences.
  • Talk about it with someone other than the person that is causing you to be irritated.


The key to it all is being able to identify right before you get angry enough to behave irrationally. By keeping your emotions in check, you control them, as opposed to them controlling you.
05-11-2010, 03:44 PM #4
Souledge
I am error
Well ask yourself this:
Are your other classmates doing the same thing as you?
Are your actions undermining the authority of the teacher?
Are you being brutal to the teacher because your classmates think you're cool because of it?

If it's yes, no & no, then I must say the teacher is being grudgeful towards you.
If either question has a different answer in your experience, ask yourself "wouldn't I do the same thing if I were in the Teacher's position?"

Though mutual respect is an essential basis for study, a teacher cannot allow chaos & malevolent intent of one person to jeapordise the intellectual development of any of his other students.

The teacher HAS to to do something to make sure your fellow classmates don't follow your example. Perhaps you have the capacity to be able to have a blast in class and still pass the schoolyear with flying colours.

Understand that your behaviour influences your fellow students, who may not have that above-mentioned capability. If he would decide that having a blast is the most important thing to do, he will most likely not be able to pass because he can only do one of the two things; either serious study, or turning the classroom into a playroom.

I hope this helps you understand why the teacher does what he/she does
05-12-2010, 06:41 PM #5
LowKey
Gym leader
I'm good at school lol Smile
05-13-2010, 03:34 AM #6
I used to have ADD supposedly, and I acted up last year.
I think I amounted to a total of around 30 detentions.
The next year my mom took me to the doctors and was diagnosed with ADD so I was put on ritalin which calms you supposedly.
I felt like a zombie coming into school everyday and I hated my life.
I stopped taking the pills and this one teacher that gave me about 20 of those detentions was fired and magically my ADD left....

We all go through a stage where we think we are always right, and think we're so cool because we got 4 detentions in one day, or talked back to your english teacher for no reason...
Most of us grow out of it.
I suggest that you just get out of that mind set that you are always right, and you should voice your opinion.
As a matter of fact in that situation you do not have the freedom of speech.
If you have a problem with a teacher or want to sware at them, at least have the decency to talk to them after class and try to settle your dispute with them
05-13-2010, 04:12 AM #7
just behave you bad boy!
05-13-2010, 04:17 AM #8
RICHIE209
March 6, 2011.
I'd have to know how you act to properly judge BUT if you want to not act the same way, just think as if you weren't you. Act as if you were a bystander watching you from the side. Think before you act or speak. If you do something, think about how you will look and about the consequences. Rational thinking is the key to life, even in your most agitated, testosterone-filled moments.
06-03-2010, 03:57 AM #9
alston
Haxor!
Hello friends

Okay, your question has multiple answers. First, no, you did NOT behave badly. Second, do NOT call him. It makes you look desperate. Thirdly, yes, you should avoid ANY sort of contact with him except casual, friend-like contact. I cannot imagine why you have a feeling of missing him dearly, much less why you can't get over it. You said it yourself, 'it's obvious we don't communicate. Why in the hell would you want a relationship with a guy that you can't communicate with? He's already asked you repeatedly when you were going to f*ck, 'make love', whatever, so it's painfully obvious that he ONLY wants you for sex. In fact, if you are an attractive female, most EVERY guy you meet will be wanting you for sex...that's what guys do. Trust me, I AM a guy. Of course, you can eventually develop a meaningful, even lasting relationship with a guy...some guy, but initially most of them will want you for sex. Sorry, that's just the way it is. You have NO reason to be missing 'John'. You were also wrong to be kissing and having foreplay with 'John'. Foreplay means just that...the PLAY beFORE the actual SEX. When you make out with a guy, kissing and foreplay, you're silently communicating to him that you desire to have sex with him. That's what his brain reads. The best thing that you can possibly do is to go into every potential dating scenario armed with the fact that ALL guys want to have sex with you.

Thanks
06-03-2010, 04:11 AM #10
xScreamo!
Trading Kids For Angel Dust
Lol. All you guys just saved me. I got 36 detentions, 2 ISS's, 1 OSS's, and a shit load of chances. I'm the 3rd worse student in my whole school and yes they keep a list of all the bad kids (they showed me). I have ADD but I can control it. I think the reason why I act up is because I'm trying to make myself look cool (it atcually worked Happy).

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