Post: Teen Relationships
06-19-2010, 07:36 PM #1
eDeityy
NGU's Resident Author
(adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); So, this isn't exactly a debate that is intellectually challenging (unless you're going to pull out statistics of failures/successes), although I assume it will be highly opinionated.

It's simple: do you think that teenage relationships are capable of lasting?

By the way, in your post, include whether or not you're in a relationship as a teenager right now. I'm nearly positive that if you're in a long-standing relationship, you'll be optimistic. However, those who have been stung by unrequited love might not be so hopeful.

Thoughts?
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06-19-2010, 07:48 PM #2
Reaganj
Pokemon Trainer
I honestly think there is too much difficulty in getting a teenage relationship to last. Whether it be college after high school or finding a job. Even if they dont last they are still fun while they do.
06-19-2010, 08:43 PM #3
xVii-
Big Sister
If it's a relationship that's only based on looks and social status, then of course it's not going to last. But if it's a sincere relationship and the two involved actually care for each other, then it's capable of lasting, but it's still a challenge.
06-19-2010, 08:59 PM #4
H₂O
Samurai Poster
I know people who had relationships in high school and got married, on the chicks side of the relationship 'purpose' lmao
I think there worth it as its easy pussy ahaa

And if you like a chick why not test ride em? :p


Oh, and I have had short and long relationships, and when I look back on my past all I can remember is relationships and emotional turning events. So, you can say its worth it or not depending on how good your relationship is
06-19-2010, 09:04 PM #5
Fionn
Banned
Yeah , I know a girl that started to go out with a boy at 12. Now they're 18 and still going strong. They are capable if it's based on the right things like personality instead of people being so shallow.
06-19-2010, 09:42 PM #6
xinfectedsoulx
Daddy's home.
Depends on how long you count as lasting. I'm 18 and single. I still feel that it's too early to settle down with a girl and make it last, as in move out and get married and so on. On the other hand, I'm not saying I wouldn't if I knew I met the right girl. But then, I'm 18 and only experienced very little compared to the girls I will meet in future. In my opinion, if you settle with the first girl you meet, it's most likely because you know you won't get another girl if you 'dumped' her. Of course, there will be those who genuinely 'love' their partners, but in my guess, that's very little. There are billions of girls out their, the first on won't be as "right" as say the 40th one, which by then you'll have had 39 experiences to know she's "right". Waffled on a bit but if you're not stupid you'll understand.
06-19-2010, 10:20 PM #7
Pricey91
Professor of trollology
It's not likely it'll last. A lot of things change when you're a teenager. The rapid progression from being a child to an adult starts to gain momentum and your circumstances can change in an instant. Of course, there is always exceptions to the rule.
06-19-2010, 10:37 PM #8
eDeityy
NGU's Resident Author
Originally posted by Pricey91 View Post
It's not likely it'll last. A lot of things change when you're a teenager. The rapid progression from being a child to an adult starts to gain momentum and your circumstances can change in an instant. Of course, there is always exceptions to the rule.


I agree completely. Surely, there are exceptions to the rule, although in terms of likelihood, it probably won't end up lasting. I've been with my girlfriend for eight months, we're teenagers, and while I'm hopeful, I accept the probable downfall of the relationship.

Personally, I don't think it's necessarily always the people in the relationship's fault, it's dependent on a number of factors. As our bodies change, obviously hormones are out of whack and feelings are perceived inaccurately. More often than not, as an addition, teenagers experiment sexually which also messes with our emotions due to the chemical release of a certain hormone (which my mind is unable to name at the moment).

Not only is the change in the body a factor, but, as for any relationship at any age, circumstantial problems arise quickly, i.e: health, location, interests, friends, income, etc. Some times, people just don't click. Other times, parents or friends come in the way of people. It really all just depends.

I'm going to say that age matters but to an extent.
06-19-2010, 10:41 PM #9
Naruto
Dark Knight
There is no such thing as love in teen relationship. Most guys just go out with girls that are what they prefer as hot and like to shoe off to their friends. Teen relationships are bullshit to me and love doesn't mean anything anymore.
06-19-2010, 10:46 PM #10
eDeityy
NGU's Resident Author
Originally posted by TheChosenRanger View Post
There is no such thing as love in teen relationship. Most guys just go out with girls that are what they prefer as hot and like to shoe off to their friends. Teen relationships are bullshit to me and love doesn't mean anything anymore.


Have you been heartbroken before?

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