I am going to have to respectfully disagree.
In your first story, hypothetically, what if one guy was beating his wife and as a result was late for work. He missed the Twin Towers falling and his life is saved. Is that God? Should he now beat his wife even more because it is where God wanted him to be?
You list all these positive things and attribute them to God but what about all the negatives? Is it God that lets parents watch their children die young? Is it God that allows millions to be malnourished in the world? God I hope not.
Note: This post is not meant to attack any religion in anyway. I just disagree with the view OP has taken on the subject