Post: Girl advice...
09-29-2010, 01:49 AM #1
God_of_War
God Help us all
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I like this girl and I do not know how to ask her out... she basically is my friend but I like her more than that and well the problem is I do not know if she likes me and then the other problem is we are friends and I do not want to ruin our friendship... .... So should I just ask her and see what happens or never find out and not ask? Rep will be rewarded for answers...

I know I am 18 but I AM TO SHY lol..
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09-29-2010, 11:18 PM #38
Nknights23
Original Gamer
It really depends on how well you know her.

Ask yourself stuff like:
- How long have we been friends?
- Does she have this other particular guy she likes? (If she does... dont bother then.. But be careful, some girls do this to make you want her even more)

The best advice anybody could probably give you would probably be:
Use your judgment.

Im sure it wouldn't hurt to ask her out on a date or something.

Explain to her how you feel when your watching a movie or something.

EDIT:

I didnt realise you had already asked...

Try again dude. Girls like to feel Pursued.
And dont you think she would have told you she had a boyfriend if you too had been friends for so long?

Ask her to the movies or something but, Don't look/seem/ or act desperate
09-29-2010, 11:31 PM #39
aZlan
Never come on here anymore
Originally posted by War View Post
Well I asked her and she replied with " I wish you would have said something sooner because someone else asked me out today, right before you did' ... THanks for the help everyone...


omg i cried.
09-30-2010, 12:14 AM #40
God_of_War
God Help us all
Originally posted by Vincen
It really depends on how well you know her.

Ask yourself stuff like:
- How long have we been friends?
- Does she have this other particular guy she likes? (If she does... dont bother then.. But be careful, some girls do this to make you want her even more)

The best advice anybody could probably give you would probably be:
Use your judgment.

Im sure it wouldn't hurt to ask her out on a date or something.

Explain to her how you feel when your watching a movie or something.

EDIT:

I didnt realise you had already asked...

Try again dude. Girls like to feel Pursued.
And dont you think she would have told you she had a boyfriend if you too had been friends for so long?

Ask her to the movies or something but, Don't look/seem/ or act desperate

Yeah man it does seem weird that out of the blue she has a boyfriend me and her other friend both find it weird so I agree with what you are saying... and I shall give it a try..
Originally posted by aZlan View Post
omg i cried.


=(
09-30-2010, 01:50 AM #41
Illmatic_96
< ^ > < ^ >
Im not expecting you to get many serious answers so im gunna be serious. Just flirt with her and based on how she reacts to the flirting should give you a pretty good idea.
09-30-2010, 02:01 AM #42
Screamo
R.I.P. NGU
Originally posted by War View Post
Yeah man it does seem weird that out of the blue she has a boyfriend me and her other friend both find it weird so I agree with what you are saying... and I shall give it a try..


=(


Dude, you messed up.
I'm being dead serious, if you wanna go out with a girl you gotta do one thing. Try to become friends with her friends. For one of two reasons, One: if you become close enough you can ask them to find out how the girl feels about you, and two: if she sees you talking to her friends she will be jealous, trust me.

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