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I found the story pretty interesting and it also made me rather angry when the man is always blamed for rape. For instance the women gets extremely drunk and ends up having sex with a guy that she didn't want to well thats her own ****ing fault for getting so drunk in the first place if she's in a situation that she dislikes and that's due to her actions earlier then she's the only one to blame. I do understand that the guy should have obliged her wishes and stopped so there is a certain amount of blame to pin to him aswell but without her getting drunk in the first place this would not have happened so the guy is not ever 100% to blame.

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I don't agree with the bit you added. You don't know what's happening when you're drunk. What you're doing or anything. If the girl seems too drunk to realise what she is doing, the man should realise that she's too drunk and shouldn't go any further with her. In a way though, if girls didn't go for all the "good looking guys" half of this wouldn't happen. It ends up being those guys that will take it to sex because they're not used to getting told "no". They think they're too pretty for the girl to not want sex with them, so then they resort to violence and rape to get it from them. At least, that's what it's like in my town.

If a women is too drunk to know, it's not rape.
That's just my opinion, no thought behind it.

Ya I agree with Jamie If the woman is too drunk and doesnt have a clue whats going on how is it considered rape??

They chose to get drunk...

Ok, let me put it this way for you. You go on a night out. You get drunk for whatever reason. You don't know what's happening, you have no idea who you're talking to. You wake up in the morning in someone elses bed. Great you think, only wondering why your arsehole is hurting. You turn over and find a dude next to you. What would you do? You chose to get drunk. It can work both ways my friend.

Lol
I agree with this guy.

If they are acting flirty while there drunk and have sex - it's not rape to me

If they aren't acting flirty and the guy starts hitting on her and won't go away then tries to have sex and she doesn't know she's doing it - it's rape to me

So that's my opinions. I'm 13 anyways so don't plan on having sex until around 15 - 18 with someone I LOVE!:love:

Recently a woman in England was sentenced to 3yrs in prison for falsely trying to imprison a man she claimed raped her. It was all down to the man ending their 1 1/2yr relationship and the woman couldn't handle it, so proceeded to try to turn his life into a shambles.
Justice is served in some cases.

What you must also realise is this is a very sensitive topic. Woman have nowhere to turn with regards rape, but the few who do stand up for other rape victims get condemned by some quaters. This makes women feel hemmed in and have nowhere to turn when they do get raped.
In the early 1900's, if a woman claimed rape they could get put in prison for it. It's only recently they have been able to come out and speak about their traumas and experiences.

In most cases, despite the woman being drunk it is still rape. When people in this thread say "if they're drunk, its their fault", you need to think about what you're saying. People are allowed to go out and drink in the knowledge they will be safe, regardless of how drunk they are. 'infectedsoul' has given a brilliant example of if the shoe were on the other foot.

In ending, sex with any person should always involve both parties being aware and understanding what is going on, before anything happens. If you take a girl home and she immediately passes out on the sofa, leave her there and go to bed. You'll save yourself a life of shame.