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Well I logged onto Facebook this morning and the girl I liked was in a relationship with someone else! Boy was that a bummer. Anyways the girl, a week prior to her getting with someone else was going to me, 'oh your lovely and I like you' and my reply was 'I like you too' etc etc. However I went to a college open day for a few days then came back didnt speak to her for a day or two due to me being busy revising, then when i log on facebook today shes with someone else. Ive tried to get over it but its rather hard. Anyone have any ideas on what I should do?

It sucks!!!!!!!! :cry:

its a common thing that happens, just keep your foot in the door, and if this guy flakes out you are there. Common issues with girls is that you act to friendly to them and next thing you know you passed the infamous friend line, no more chances at getting them as a girlfriend because they believe that you are their best friend. I dont know your entire situation but im just going to say, keep yourself in that door, dont talk to her too much pace it out by like a day or two each time you talk, because if you talk alot then theres nothing to talk about when you are in person.

Its just my nature that im Friendly, Maybe im too friendly like. But i cant change that its just me. :/

yeah i feel you bro, had the same problem a couple years ago. You just have to put a crapload of sarcasm in with everything and everything seems either partly nice or sarcastic, you are still nice but you are also putting yourself out there as in it for the relationship. talking every day is also a bad thing

Damn, that sucks bro! I have had this happen to me, not in the same way.. But pretty similar.. Hope you get over it, and move on.. Life sucks..

lifes a bitc* its Stressful sorry

Yeah I know a girl like that, I call her a whore.
But, try talking to her and open up to her.
You might feel like a fag but you might get somewhere

Get her on the rebound?

^^^^^ Right ^^^^^

Just be yourself, do not change anything about you... If she asks for advice give it to her, just make sure you say, "do you really want to know how I feel??".. She will tell you yes, and then give it to her, dont hate on the the other guy, thats not right, and she smell that shit from a mile away... And if the guys messes up, throw a little line at her like "damm, if it were me, I would not have done that to you", shit like that.. It plays with a girls mind, cause now she dont know exactly what you are feeling...lol.. And if she wants to know, she will ask... Complement her all the time.. That goes a long way with girls... If the opportunity is there, then let her know how you feel, and express it bro.. Throw the flirting game back at her, do not be intimidated by her, women like men who are strong minded and not afraid to express thier feelings, but do not be a jerk about it.. You have 2 options right now, sit back and let the relationship play out and possibly lose her forever, or be a man and grow some balls and go and get what is yours.. Good luck homie...

Tell her how you feel, and what not. If she says sorry, and that she thinks the guy she is with is the right guy for her, you're going to have to move on unfortunately. There was once in my life, when I was 14 (lol), where I really liked this girl, but I was always too shy or friendly. she never caught on that I liked her. And then it was too late; she fell in love with another guy. Even now, shes still with that guy. took me 3 months to get over that. It just takes some time, but eventually you can get over it. Theres always other fish in the sea. lol