Post: OMG HELP!!! how to get women in love with you
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01-31-2011, 05:42 PM
#1
Superchunk
Are you high?
01-31-2011, 07:21 PM
#20
Fierceknucks
Former Staff
The number one mistake most guys make, is not having confidence. You have to be 100% confident in your actions.
Here's another thing I usually tell people when they're on the fence about asking a girl out, because they're too scared to do it. Try to imagine what it will be like if you simply don't do it. Then think about it if you do in fact do it, and she rejects you.
Let me expand on this in as simple a way I can:
You get what, 70 - 80 years to live if you're lucky? How long of that period of time are you going to waste being a complete wimp when it comes to talking to girls or asking them out on dates? You need to look at the big picture. You're a human being living on a huge dirt ball that's being flung through space, and certain death is imminent at all times, yet you're scared about asking another human of the opposite sex to hang out? That's a little ridiculous when you think about it.
What's the worse that could happen? It's not as though if she says "no" that you'll suddenly burst into flames. You simply take it like a man, and move on to a chick who isn't a fukn bitch. It's called "the game" and as soon as you started poppin' boners while looking at chicks, you started playing it. "Scoring" is just an analogy, but it really does mean that you scored a point in the game, literally. You also need to take in account that, your record, however bad it is, still makes you a solid player in the game. 10 rejects is better than never asking any chicks out at all. It's all about being confident in yourself, and being comfortable with the person you are, so that you can find a chick who's into you for who you are.
Think of it this way; If you don't ask her, you're going to feel even more stupid than if you just asked her and she said no. You won't be lying on your death bed regretting ever asking a girl out because she rejected you. No, instead, you're going to say "Hey atleast I fukn asked her.."
So stop being a pussy about it and get in there man. I'm not trying to offend you, just trying to make you realize that you are on the team that has to be the strongest when it comes to this matter. Just go up to her, be yourself, strike up a convo, ask her out, get her math do whatever you gotta do to get an in. Trust me, in a couple weeks time you'll have forgotten all about how scared you were to do any of this, regardless of if she said no or yes. And you may even get your little carrot wet in the process.
My point is simply this: Life is short. Everyone wastes their fukn time trying to figure out what the meaning of it is, and they end up missing out on all the experience. I think that's what life IS actually about, experiencing as much shit as you possibly can before you fukn croak. So stop worrying about her saying no or rejecting you, and worry about the fact that if you don't do shit, you're going to miss out on the experience altogether..
Here's another thing I usually tell people when they're on the fence about asking a girl out, because they're too scared to do it. Try to imagine what it will be like if you simply don't do it. Then think about it if you do in fact do it, and she rejects you.
Let me expand on this in as simple a way I can:
You get what, 70 - 80 years to live if you're lucky? How long of that period of time are you going to waste being a complete wimp when it comes to talking to girls or asking them out on dates? You need to look at the big picture. You're a human being living on a huge dirt ball that's being flung through space, and certain death is imminent at all times, yet you're scared about asking another human of the opposite sex to hang out? That's a little ridiculous when you think about it.
What's the worse that could happen? It's not as though if she says "no" that you'll suddenly burst into flames. You simply take it like a man, and move on to a chick who isn't a fukn bitch. It's called "the game" and as soon as you started poppin' boners while looking at chicks, you started playing it. "Scoring" is just an analogy, but it really does mean that you scored a point in the game, literally. You also need to take in account that, your record, however bad it is, still makes you a solid player in the game. 10 rejects is better than never asking any chicks out at all. It's all about being confident in yourself, and being comfortable with the person you are, so that you can find a chick who's into you for who you are.
Think of it this way; If you don't ask her, you're going to feel even more stupid than if you just asked her and she said no. You won't be lying on your death bed regretting ever asking a girl out because she rejected you. No, instead, you're going to say "Hey atleast I fukn asked her.."
So stop being a pussy about it and get in there man. I'm not trying to offend you, just trying to make you realize that you are on the team that has to be the strongest when it comes to this matter. Just go up to her, be yourself, strike up a convo, ask her out, get her math do whatever you gotta do to get an in. Trust me, in a couple weeks time you'll have forgotten all about how scared you were to do any of this, regardless of if she said no or yes. And you may even get your little carrot wet in the process.
My point is simply this: Life is short. Everyone wastes their fukn time trying to figure out what the meaning of it is, and they end up missing out on all the experience. I think that's what life IS actually about, experiencing as much shit as you possibly can before you fukn croak. So stop worrying about her saying no or rejecting you, and worry about the fact that if you don't do shit, you're going to miss out on the experience altogether..
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01-31-2011, 07:26 PM
#21
NeedaFlameSoon
I liek teh way im p0pular
Originally posted by GhostKnucks
The number one mistake most guys make, is not having confidence. You have to be 100% confident in your actions.
Here's another thing I usually tell people when they're on the fence about asking a girl out, because they're too scared to do it. Try to imagine what it will be like if you simply don't do it. Then think about it if you do in fact do it, and she rejects you.
Let me expand on this in as simple a way I can:
You get what, 70 - 80 years to live if you're lucky? How long of that period of time are you going to waste being a complete wimp when it comes to talking to girls or asking them out on dates? You need to look at the big picture. You're a human being living on a huge dirt ball that's being flung through space, and certain death is imminent at all times, yet you're scared about asking another human of the opposite sex to hang out? That's a little ridiculous when you think about it.
What's the worse that could happen? It's not as though if she says "no" that you'll suddenly burst into flames. You simply take it like a man, and move on to a chick who isn't a fukn bitch. It's called "the game" and as soon as you started poppin' boners while looking at chicks, you started playing it. "Scoring" is just an analogy, but it really does mean that you scored a point in the game, literally. You also need to take in account that, your record, however bad it is, still makes you a solid player in the game. 10 rejects is better than never asking any chicks out at all. It's all about being confident in yourself, and being comfortable with the person you are, so that you can find a chick who's into you for who you are.
Think of it this way; If you don't ask her, you're going to feel even more stupid than if you just asked her and she said no. You won't be lying on your death bed regretting ever asking a girl out because she rejected you. No, instead, you're going to say "Hey atleast I fukn asked her.."
So stop being a pussy about it and get in there man. I'm not trying to offend you, just trying to make you realize that you are on the team that has to be the strongest when it comes to this matter. Just go up to her, be yourself, strike up a convo, ask her out, get her math do whatever you gotta do to get an in. Trust me, in a couple weeks time you'll have forgotten all about how scared you were to do any of this, regardless of if she said no or yes. And you may even get your little carrot wet in the process.
Here's another thing I usually tell people when they're on the fence about asking a girl out, because they're too scared to do it. Try to imagine what it will be like if you simply don't do it. Then think about it if you do in fact do it, and she rejects you.
Let me expand on this in as simple a way I can:
You get what, 70 - 80 years to live if you're lucky? How long of that period of time are you going to waste being a complete wimp when it comes to talking to girls or asking them out on dates? You need to look at the big picture. You're a human being living on a huge dirt ball that's being flung through space, and certain death is imminent at all times, yet you're scared about asking another human of the opposite sex to hang out? That's a little ridiculous when you think about it.
What's the worse that could happen? It's not as though if she says "no" that you'll suddenly burst into flames. You simply take it like a man, and move on to a chick who isn't a fukn bitch. It's called "the game" and as soon as you started poppin' boners while looking at chicks, you started playing it. "Scoring" is just an analogy, but it really does mean that you scored a point in the game, literally. You also need to take in account that, your record, however bad it is, still makes you a solid player in the game. 10 rejects is better than never asking any chicks out at all. It's all about being confident in yourself, and being comfortable with the person you are, so that you can find a chick who's into you for who you are.
Think of it this way; If you don't ask her, you're going to feel even more stupid than if you just asked her and she said no. You won't be lying on your death bed regretting ever asking a girl out because she rejected you. No, instead, you're going to say "Hey atleast I fukn asked her.."
So stop being a pussy about it and get in there man. I'm not trying to offend you, just trying to make you realize that you are on the team that has to be the strongest when it comes to this matter. Just go up to her, be yourself, strike up a convo, ask her out, get her math do whatever you gotta do to get an in. Trust me, in a couple weeks time you'll have forgotten all about how scared you were to do any of this, regardless of if she said no or yes. And you may even get your little carrot wet in the process.
Knucks your a legend man , but I bet that was a copy+paste from your blog or something :carling:
01-31-2011, 07:27 PM
#23
Fierceknucks
Former Staff
01-31-2011, 10:13 PM
#26
ResistTheSun
In Flames Much?
02-01-2011, 05:44 AM
#27
diggitydawg
I am error
No but seriously don't pussyfoot it, just talk to her more often and if you both start flirting ask her if she wants to hang out sometime. If she doesn't show any signs of liking you like idk smiling and laughing all the time then say **** it and try to tap some fugly lardass instead. Better than nothing, right?
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