(adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); Hi guys, so i recently broke my virginity, and didnt use a condom, i pulled out, but we're not sure if she will be pregnant or not, after doing it, we had a jag in school, (we're only 14) and now, if she was pregnant, we're not sure if it will have exterminated the baby oor not, help is greatly appreciated on what we should do,
Thanks
Spaz-

This is the primary problem with :nomnomnom: when you're so young, the guy will want an abortion to get it over with and normally the girl will become (stupidly) emotionally attached to the "baby" that could be inside of her, so yeah an unfortunate tumble down the stairs might just be the best course of action :whistle:

haha, ur video game life is over!

Or you could have it and give it up for adoption. I'm not for abortion. I mean you should at least give the baby a chance to live! Good luck anyways though.

This is a hard decision. Can't say I would know what to do.

she was considerig that bruv <3

K, but it's your baby do whatever you wan't to do

This should teach you a lesson. Next time, use a condom, plus make sure she is on birth control. There is nothing you can do at this point to reverse you having sex. When is she due for her next period? That's how long you are going to have to wait.

Wait til your atleast 17 to be having sex. Get you some Trojans when the time is right my dude. Don't make another mistake that could ruin your life! Nobody wants a kid at 14.

BTW, whats a "jag?"

You have a few options:
Go to a clinic and check if she really is pregnant.
Pros: You at least get to know, you might find out she isn't pregnant.
Cons: You (or she) might not want to go to the clinic, if she is pregnant you're in no better situation.

Get an abortion:
Pros: You get it all over with, no need to worry, baby won't risk having a bad life, you can go on with your life (without ruining it)
Cons: It may be against your religion/beliefs, you may want to keep the baby, it can be expensive

Put the baby up for adoption:
Pros: You don't have to worry about the baby or care for it (your life isn't ruined), its easy and doesn't cost any money
Cons: It may be against your beliefs, you may desire to raise the baby, the baby/child will be raised in an inadequate foster care and adoption system, the baby/child may have a horrible life and may have issues in the future

Have the baby and raise it:
Pros: You get to keep the baby, if you do a good job the baby/child will turn out all right, it can be a good bonding experience
Cons: You will become forever tied down, your life will suck, you'll have to get a job or super rich parents who care enough to help you, your life will practically be over and you won't have time for fun and games, the baby may turn out badly or have an inadequate or unfair life, if you don't give the child good enough care or provide it with poor living conditions and/or cause its death you could be charged with depraved heart and/or negligent homicide.