Post: Life is a bitch.
02-08-2011, 05:38 AM #1
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(adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); Ok so I'm gonna throw it out there cuz I'm in a huge fcuck mood about now. I'm ready for all the flames and jokes that anyone can dish out so go ahead and make fun of me... I could really care less.

Ok so... I'm 16, Home schooled and in a shizt load of trouble for using drugs and alcohol. I've basically been on house arrest for a few months now. On top of that my parents just found out recently that I am Bi-Sexual (Make all the fag jokes you want. I DON'T CARE.) My parents are conservative christians and are far from supportive of my choice. And when I say conservative I mean CONSERVATIVE.

So here in a few months there is a home school prom. I am a junior this year and decided that I was going to ask a girl to the prom with me. I thought about it long and hard and decided on a girl that I've liked for quite a while. Today I ask her out to the prom and she says that shed love to. I'm floating on clouds at that point.

Well after that, later that night I tell my mom about the great news... Well now I'm fcucked. She says to me that I'm not allowed to date and that I CANNOT take this girl to prom as my date. W T F??? They don't support me being bi but they will not let me take a GIRL to the prom.

They've done this to me my whole life. Never let me date, hang out with girls, talk on the phone with girls. I'm far from hindered when it comes to dealing with girls though. Through the way I've been raised I've still learned to communicate with girls very well. That's not my problem.

I just don't get how my parents can do this??? They scorn me and are disappointed that I'm bi but won't let me take a girl to prom... What do I do in this situation. Is there no way to please them???

Idk I guess I'm just venting. Any opinions are welcome and like I said flame and make all the fag jokes you want because I could really care less.
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02-08-2011, 05:42 AM #2
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maybe they want you to take a guy? :confused:
i see where you got the choice of becoming bi i mean if your parents just want you hanging out with guys then i guess you had no choice all jokes aside though i think you should take the girl to prom no matter what you parents say because its just not right you asked them and they say no then they are not giving you a choice but to become miserable. Talk to the girl about your situation a gaming forum won't help much but maybe become her best friend as you like her and she can listen to you while your at it :y:
02-08-2011, 05:51 AM #3
Originally posted by xPEACExMAKERx View Post
Ok so I'm gonna throw it out there cuz I'm in a huge fcuck mood about now. I'm ready for all the flames and jokes that anyone can dish out so go ahead and make fun of me... I could really care less.

Ok so... I'm 16, Home schooled and in a shizt load of trouble for using drugs and alcohol. I've basically been on house arrest for a few months now. On top of that my parents just found out recently that I am Bi-Sexual (Make all the fag jokes you want. I DON'T CARE.) My parents are conservative christians and are far from supportive of my choice. And when I say conservative I mean CONSERVATIVE.

So here in a few months there is a home school prom. I am a junior this year and decided that I was going to ask a girl to the prom with me. I thought about it long and hard and decided on a girl that I've liked for quite a while. Today I ask her out to the prom and she says that shed love to. I'm floating on clouds at that point.

Well after that, later that night I tell my mom about the great news... Well now I'm fcucked. She says to me that I'm not allowed to date and that I CANNOT take this girl to prom as my date. W T F??? They don't support me being bi but they will not let me take a GIRL to the prom.

They've done this to me my whole life. Never let me date, hang out with girls, talk on the phone with girls. I'm far from hindered when it comes to dealing with girls though. Through the way I've been raised I've still learned to communicate with girls very well. That's not my problem.

I just don't get how my parents can do this??? They scorn me and are disappointed that I'm bi but won't let me take a girl to prom... What do I do in this situation. Is there no way to please them???

Idk I guess I'm just venting. Any opinions are welcome and like I said flame and make all the fag jokes you want because I could really care less.


Just tell them you can date all you want and there's nothing they can do about it, because there really is nothing they can do. Only you can make yourself happy, and if they want to stand in the way of your pursuit of happiness, they're shitty parents.
02-08-2011, 05:52 AM #4
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Originally posted by xSync View Post
maybe they want you to take a guy? :confused:
i see where you got the choice of becoming bi i mean if your parents just want you hanging out with guys then i guess you had no choice all jokes aside though i think you should take the girl to prom no matter what you parents say because its just not right you asked them and they say no then they are not giving you a choice but to become miserable. Talk to the girl about your situation a gaming forum won't help much but maybe become her best friend as you like her and she can listen to you while your at it :y:

Hah no dude taking a guy would be worse.

And yeah I'm taking her no matter what... It's just a hard situation with my parents. How am I supposed to make them happy? I don't hate them. I just need support from them

I also know a gaming forum isn't the greatest place but like I said I'm really just looking to vent as of now.

And as far as becoming her best friend... I'm working on that. I really like her and she likes me. It just takes time and I thought taking her to prom would be a good way to show her how much I care.
02-08-2011, 05:53 AM #5
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Originally posted by AceVirus View Post
Just tell them you can date all you want and there's nothing they can do about it, because there really is nothing they can do. Only you can make yourself happy, and if they want to stand in the way of your pursuit of happiness, they're shitty parents.


Off topic. Your sig got me. :evil:
02-08-2011, 05:54 AM #6
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Originally posted by AceVirus View Post
Just tell them you can date all you want and there's nothing they can do about it, because there really is nothing they can do. Only you can make yourself happy, and if they want to stand in the way of your pursuit of happiness, they're shitty parents.

Well said. But at this point either I do what they ask me or I'm out on my ass. And getting kicked out isn't an option for me right now.
02-08-2011, 05:55 AM #7
Originally posted by xPEACExMAKERx View Post
Well said. But at this point either I do what they ask me or I'm out on my ass. And getting kicked out isn't an option for me right now.


What kind of parents would kick their kid out for something like that?
02-08-2011, 05:58 AM #8
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Originally posted by xPEACExMAKERx View Post
Hah no dude taking a guy would be worse.

And yeah I'm taking her no matter what... It's just a hard situation with my parents. How am I supposed to make them happy? I don't hate them. I just need support from them

I also know a gaming forum isn't the greatest place but like I said I'm really just looking to vent as of now.

And as far as becoming her best friend... I'm working on that. I really like her and she likes me. It just takes time and I thought taking her to prom would be a good way to show her how much I care.


well try to sit and talked to them. i think they might look at you different since your bi but try explaining to them what your going through and if they truly care then they will understand and support you =D
02-08-2011, 06:00 AM #9
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Originally posted by AceVirus View Post
What kind of parents would kick their kid out for something like that?

Well my parents... I've been in a shat load of trouble for drugs and alcohol lately so at this point they're getting very fed up. They've told me either I follow their rules or I need to go somewhere else.

---------- Post added 02-08-2011 at 12:00 AM ---------- Previous post was 02-07-2011 at 11:59 PM ----------

Originally posted by xSync View Post
well try to sit and talked to them. i think they might look at you different since your bi but try explaining to them what your going through and if they truly care then they will understand and support you =D

I've tryed that. They have me in counseling for it... I guess they're "trying to get the gay out".
02-08-2011, 06:02 AM #10
Originally posted by xPEACExMAKERx View Post
Well my parents... I've been in a shat load of trouble for drugs and alcohol lately so at this point they're getting very fed up. They've told me either I follow their rules or I need to go somewhere else.

---------- Post added 02-08-2011 at 12:00 AM ---------- Previous post was 02-07-2011 at 11:59 PM ----------


I've tryed that. They have me in counseling for it... I guess they're "trying to get the gay out".


Well I wish you the best of luck, however you go about things. :y:

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