Post: Dying teenager plans her own funeral
02-13-2011, 03:33 PM #1
_V_
Banned
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Seventeen-year-old Donna Shaw was diagnosed with rare bone cancer Ewing's Sarcoma in February last year.

Despite surgery and chemotherapy, she has been told nothing more can be done so is now planning her final months and every detail of her own funeral.

Her mother Nikki Parker, 45, who has given up her job in a restaurant to be Donna's carer, said her daughter was an "inspiration" to everyone around her.

She said: "She has written everything out. She has asked six people she wants to carry her coffin, all friends and family.

"She has chosen everything, her songs, she has got a video of her she wants playing at the funeral, and the colours of the flowers."

Donna plans to wear her bridesmaid dress from when her mum married husband Mik Parker in October 2008, she said, and will have her favourite cuddly toy beside her. Men will wear pink ties - Donna's favourite colour - and after her cremation, she wants her ashes scattered off Brighton Pier.

She said after Donna was first diagnosed, she had surgery to remove 80% of the main tumour growing in her shoulder. She then underwent chemotherapy but was rushed into hospital a few weeks before Christmas with a chest infection.

Mrs Parker said: "On January 6 we had an appointment with our consultant who basically said the chemo has not been working. She had a cry, and swore and shouted and then came to terms with it."

Mrs Parker said once Donna knew her cancer was untreatable she decided she wanted to die in dignity.

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I think this is quite sad if that was me i'd prob go crazy.
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St0rM, TrytoYOLO
02-13-2011, 03:34 PM #2
ZoneHD
Shiver do you lift?
Cancer is a bad thing, Wish it would just go away :(
02-13-2011, 03:37 PM #3
IL--U--IK--IE
At least I can fight
Story made me sad :( What a brave girl.
02-13-2011, 03:47 PM #4
Alt
Banned
:/ Poor girl, No one should have to plan something like that :(
02-13-2011, 04:00 PM #5
Cancer will be cured in the near future, well I hope.
02-13-2011, 04:05 PM #6
St0rM
Treasure hunter
Very nice post good sir. +Rep
02-13-2011, 04:12 PM #7
_V_
Banned
Originally posted by Mr.Vaner View Post
Cancer will be cured in the near future, well I hope.


I Hope so man so many people dieing.
02-13-2011, 05:33 PM #8
RICHIE209
March 6, 2011.
Something to think about. It's sad to have to do this, I'm sure it was hard for her.
02-13-2011, 05:35 PM #9
PsYcHoSiS
Eatin' poopy
wow... thats would have been so hard to do :(
poor girl..
02-13-2011, 07:11 PM #10
Sir
Reeferlution
This must have been hard for everybody helping, not just her.

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