Post: Girls can be so unreasonable
02-16-2011, 12:11 AM #1
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(adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); So guys, Recently me and my close friend Donna have decided not to talk to each other any more. To explain, I'll have to go back to last Thursday.

Thursday night I was texting Donna (we were more than friends, but not quite boy friend/girl friend) and I ask her is she going to Hilltown on Friday (Hilltown being the local disco we go to) And she said yeah. I asked her if we were going to kiss and she also said yeah. We text for most of the night before we eventually nodded off to sleep.

Friday morning I got up same ol' boring routine of getting breakfast, going to school and trying to survive. Then after school it was time to get ready for Hilltown, Looking forward to it, mostly because of Donna. I left my house at half 8 and arrived at about 9 o'clock, I text Donna to see if she was there yet, but she said that she wasn't, So I decided to wait for her.

About 10 minutes later I got a tap on the shoulder from some random girl who I didn't know, but she was stunning looking. She pointed to her friend (usually meaning "will you kiss her") but she also tried to tell me something, I couldn't make her out because the music was blasting in the background. I pt my ear up to her and she said the word "me". I immediately understood that she wanted me to kiss her, I though "well..... Donna's not here yet, might as well" So I kissed her and that was that.

Half an hour later I text Donna and she told me that she was at the girls toilets with her friend Rachel. I went over to them but Donna just took one look at me and went into the girls toilets. I asked Rachel "what's up with her?" she didn't know how to answer.

For about an hour after that I was trying to talk to Donna but she just didn't seem to be interested in me at all. so I though "**** this bitch I'm going to do my own thing here"....

So I whored around and kissed another 4 girls before it was time to go home. I stepped outside with my mate Cairan (who was lucky enough to get 11 girls) And I was partially def. I went home and text Donna and said "Why didn't you talk to me tonight?"

She replied "I was too shy" (I understand that you can be she but within reason)

I asked "would you like to go to the cinema tomorrow?"

She said back "why don't you ask one of the girls you kissed?"

NOOOOOOOWWWWWW!!! Hang on a minute here!!!

So I put her on the spot

She expected me to accept that she didn't want to talk to me, and I was meant to hang around for the slight possible chance that she'll change her mind, when other girls seemed to be into me?

She wanted me to just stand around like a faggot and wait for her, not knowing if she was going to interact with me at all, when I could have been dancing getting girls.

The only reply I got was "yeh nb" (in English "yeah no bother")

And that was that. I think she was being totally unreasonable. What do you think? what would you have done differently?

Also. I think "girls can be so unreasonable" is a quote from the bible, if not it should be.
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02-16-2011, 09:41 AM #38
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Originally posted by IKings View Post
Actually my response was indeed correct. You over-analyzed this situation like a girl. You opened out all your emotions like a girl. You need to move on like a man. People make mistakes, that's part of life and we all learn from it, but if you honestly resort to coming onto NGU of all places, asking for our advice on what you could have done differently then you're out of your ****ING mind.


I agree with

Originally posted by another user
People make mistakes, that's part of life


I think all in all both Donna and I ruined our friendship. Me for kissing those girls, and her for blowing me off (not sexually)
02-16-2011, 09:42 AM #39
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Originally posted by Iriish View Post
Ok i'll admit that kissing that one girl before Donna arrived was a dick move and I appologize for that, but I did wait for Donna for about an hour but she just looked extremly shy and nervous and didn't even look at me. She just walked away with her friends and didn't take a second glance. So it was at this point I thought "Right.... She doesn't want me, some other girls do. I'm going to have some fun"

Then I kissed the 4 girls, and I don't really care that Donna witnessed a few of them. If she was interested in me at all she would had the dignity to talk to me.



Basically you just proved to all of us that you didn't care about her.



You sir call me a douchbag? You know i'm dating a 17 yr old and I'm 15. You wanna know why/how? I treat her like a woman. I don't act like a horny asshole. When we go on dates and she can't get there I don't think "Oh she doesn't care, i'm going to makeout with every girl around." You sir have a lot to learn. I can tell you this with the way you are thinking you will never get a real woman.

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02-16-2011, 09:46 AM #40
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Originally posted by Pillar2365 View Post
Basically you just proved to all of us that you didn't care about her.



You sir call me a douchbag? You know i'm dating a 17 yr old and I'm 15. You wanna know why/how? I treat her like a woman. I don't act like a horny asshole. When we go on dates and she can't get there I don't think "Oh she doesn't care, i'm going to makeout with every girl around." You sir have a lot to learn. I can tell you this with the way you are thinking you will never get a real woman.


Actually I didn't directly call you a "Douchbag" also I would talk being called a douchbag as a complement.

I am a nice guy towards the girls, I've not had many girlfriends to brag about, but the ones that I have had in the past all lasted over 6 months and they really did like me. I did care about Donna I really did. But she just left me in her dust as she walked away. What was I meant to do? Cry over her unacceptable attitude or take the situation as an oppertunity to kiss some girls?
02-16-2011, 09:48 AM #41
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Lmfaooooooooooooooo.
02-16-2011, 09:50 AM #42
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Originally posted by charlieharper View Post
lmfaooooooooooooooo.


she is a handsome lady!!! Aahhhh

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02-16-2011, 10:26 AM #43
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BEING CALLED A DOUCHEBAG IS HARDLY A COMPLIMENT

You blundering idiot you
she was obviously testing you, on what you might ask

very well, i shall enlighten you young man

dude she just wanted to see what you would do, as we all know it is very difficult to make a transition from being friends to being more than friends

she wanted you to wait for her to feel ready, look as a young male of your age it is very difficult to asses a situation as it is unfolding in the future think about the way you and the girl (you find yourself in this type of situation with) are going to feel if you take this course of action

if you would of waited, she would have known and felt, hes a good guy and would have rewarded you accordingly

look you waited for an hour why not wait the whole night or better yet till the next weekend if need be

MY ADVICE: If you really like this girl, APOLOGIZE for being a DOUCHEBAG but only if you mean it (Yes WOMEN do know when a MAN is being SINCERE)

IDK it seems that all of other fellow members r basically saying your to young to worry about things like this and live life to the fullest but in all honesty

MY FINAL THOUGHT: Treating women the way they want to be treated is an ART the younger you are when you decide to start paying attn to what makes women feel special the richer and more fulfilling relationships you will have later on

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02-16-2011, 12:23 PM #44
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02-16-2011, 02:11 PM #45
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I think you got trolled IRL good sir
02-16-2011, 02:33 PM #46
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Originally posted by Iriish View Post
So guys, Recently me and my close friend Donna have decided not to talk to each other any more. To explain, I'll have to go back to last Thursday.

Thursday night I was texting Donna (we were more than friends, but not quite boy friend/girl friend) and I ask her is she going to Hilltown on Friday (Hilltown being the local disco we go to) And she said yeah. I asked her if we were going to kiss and she also said yeah. We text for most of the night before we eventually nodded off to sleep.

Friday morning I got up same ol' boring routine of getting breakfast, going to school and trying to survive. Then after school it was time to get ready for Hilltown, Looking forward to it, mostly because of Donna. I left my house at half 8 and arrived at about 9 o'clock, I text Donna to see if she was there yet, but she said that she wasn't, So I decided to wait for her.

About 10 minutes later I got a tap on the shoulder from some random girl who I didn't know, but she was stunning looking. She pointed to her friend (usually meaning "will you kiss her") but she also tried to tell me something, I couldn't make her out because the music was blasting in the background. I pt my ear up to her and she said the word "me". I immediately understood that she wanted me to kiss her, I though "well..... Donna's not here yet, might as well" So I kissed her and that was that.

Half an hour later I text Donna and she told me that she was at the girls toilets with her friend Rachel. I went over to them but Donna just took one look at me and went into the girls toilets. I asked Rachel "what's up with her?" she didn't know how to answer.

For about an hour after that I was trying to talk to Donna but she just didn't seem to be interested in me at all. so I though "**** this bitch I'm going to do my own thing here"....

So I whored around and kissed another 4 girls before it was time to go home. I stepped outside with my mate Cairan (who was lucky enough to get 11 girls) And I was partially def. I went home and text Donna and said "Why didn't you talk to me tonight?"

She replied "I was too shy" (I understand that you can be she but within reason)

I asked "would you like to go to the cinema tomorrow?"

She said back "why don't you ask one of the girls you kissed?"

NOOOOOOOWWWWWW!!! Hang on a minute here!!!

So I put her on the spot

She expected me to accept that she didn't want to talk to me, and I was meant to hang around for the slight possible chance that she'll change her mind, when other girls seemed to be into me?

She wanted me to just stand around like a faggot and wait for her, not knowing if she was going to interact with me at all, when I could have been dancing getting girls.

The only reply I got was "yeh nb" (in English "yeah no bother")

And that was that. I think she was being totally unreasonable. What do you think? what would you have done differently?

Also. I think "girls can be so unreasonable" is a quote from the bible, if not it should be.


OMG Hilltown. Ahh i remember that place =D Still got the own Projector behing the DJ? :L Aww man where do you live?

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