Originally posted by Ownage
I'm going to tell you this now, if your going to base a relationship off of looks and physical shape your setting yourself up for a fail now
Also don't do it over the internet, she will just think your afraid and women don't like men who are afraid. Just talk to her. Let her know how you feel, person to person, not computer to computer
Originally posted by RICHIE209
First off, don't get her MSN right off the bat. What you do is talk to her, if you really like her you will try to get to know her. Slowly begin to get to know her and the phone number, msn etc will come later. Be yourself and see what she's into. Add her on facebook if you haven't already and maybe shoot her a message or something. But try not to let the internet be the thing that gets your relationship going.
Exactly what they've said man. Have your first words said to her be in person for sure, even if they're something small. If you get an in just take the chance to say something cool to her but the thing is women hate being spoken to about petty bullshit so talk with them not at them. Compliment something small that you notice about her that you know she put effort into to get her attention and even at that you could just walk away because you'll have gotten on her radar and have her thinking about you. It's all pretty easy man, especially in Ireland and the UK. Just don't show a lack of confidence by looking down and being completely rigid when chatting. Forget all the internet chatting and texting, when you're trying to get with somebody it can only be in person. We all learn from experience but the quote below speaks volumes for us all at some point in life.
"Technology made it easy for us to stay in touch while keeping a distance, so we just stayed distanced and never touched now all we do is text too much." - Sage Francis 'The Best Of Times'.
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