(adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); So basically I've come on here as a last resort. I'm fairly open minded about life so I'll just get to it.

Recently me and my high school sweetheart and ex-girlfriend have been getting back to talking and stuff, were taking it slow. Here's the catch, she's dating someone else.

For about the past 2 weeks we have been hanging out and stuff again, cuddling while watching a movie and all that jazz. I love her to death, I really do. It just bugs me for some reason that all of a sudden were doing this again. Its been almost 5 years since I asked her out 2 weeks after grade 9 started. Yes, I have good memory. We've probably broke up like 15 times, but do you think that means something that even 5 years later we still feel the same thing we felt long ago? Love?

Here's where could use your advice.

Do you think she is worth it? I wanna spend the rest of my life her, but I'm not completely across the bridge yet.

I really love this girl, any help is appreciated.

Thanks guys!

Depends what your looking for in her, If your looking for a loving relationship then try ways to see her romantic side. If your looking more on the sexual side, think up something or ask her some questions to see if shes got a good plough

Alright guys I thought I'd fill you in on what happened.

Me and her went for a very enjoyable walk down the trail by my house, I straight up told her that I love her, told her that I've never even been bothered to look for another girl because I knew she was the one, wouldn't matter how many fights we got into or what I said to her, I'll always still love her. She said the same thing! Yay for me. To whoever asked how long she's been dating the other guy, its almost a year and a half they've been dating. But she absolutely hates the guy.

I told her if you don't simply love or even like the guy your dating anymore then don't make life miserable for yourself and just dump him. Hopefully she didn't get the wrong idea as in she thinks that I'm just trying to break them up just so I can get back with her. cause I'm not. I just want to see her happy, and she's not.

Thanks everybody for the advice. Hopefully the phrase "Good things come to people who wait" is true.

I literally had an "awwww attack" xD

First off im just letting you know that you DO want to infer to her that you want her to leave him and asap! I mean the longer shes with him the longer they kiss and more and that would bug the shit out of me. Anyways if she meant what she said she should end it with in the week and be back with you. Just be happy. that is the best thing you can do. Don't kid yourself when you say you want her to be happy because in a situation like this YOU know that she will be more happy with YOU not him. and just remember If it is meant to be it will happen and you will find each other again. Just keep your head up and keep pushing. Girls don't want a guy with instability. You need to show them your better for her than anyone else and when they come to you you prove it. Maybe a rose on the first date or whatever but just make it work if you want her for the long haul. Good luck.

This happend to me and me n my ex are just really close friends... I thought she liked me but I got it wrong... You shouldn't waste you're time unless you know she still likes you

The heart wants what the heart gets, you don't get to choose whether or not you love someone, she must be the one