(adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); So basically I've come on here as a last resort. I'm fairly open minded about life so I'll just get to it.

Recently me and my high school sweetheart and ex-girlfriend have been getting back to talking and stuff, were taking it slow. Here's the catch, she's dating someone else.

For about the past 2 weeks we have been hanging out and stuff again, cuddling while watching a movie and all that jazz. I love her to death, I really do. It just bugs me for some reason that all of a sudden were doing this again. Its been almost 5 years since I asked her out 2 weeks after grade 9 started. Yes, I have good memory. We've probably broke up like 15 times, but do you think that means something that even 5 years later we still feel the same thing we felt long ago? Love?

Here's where could use your advice.

Do you think she is worth it? I wanna spend the rest of my life her, but I'm not completely across the bridge yet.

I really love this girl, any help is appreciated.

Thanks guys!

Five years is a long time. People change after high school, how do you know this is the same girl you once loved?

You can do one of two things. #1 Don't waste your time until she is willing to call it off with the other dude and devote herself to you. /or/ #2 tap that a$$ until as long as you can and let the other dude deal with all the PMS sh!t.

After reading your post, I would suggest you follow #1 and give her the choice-It's you or him. I say this because relationships only work if there's trust and if she's still with the other dude, she will never fully have your trust and the relationship will fail.

It sounds like you have feelings for her and instead of getting your heart broken, you need to cut your ties now or she needs to be willing to commit to you.

Women want the best of both worlds and if we let them, they will play two men against eachother-just for the fun of it.

Now if I am wrong about you wanting a full time relationship with her and your only hanging with her for a peice of that pie; then I would suggest #2 (that is unless the other dude is a ultimate fighter or some sh*t.)

Good luck and I hope it works out for you

Well 15 times is a lot of break ups but like koolkarpet said people change after highschool so maybe one last chance can do you good

After all that time, your just viewed as a good friend. Most of the stuff you're doing with her means nothing relationship wise. If you want to, tell her how you feel. She should either feel the same way, or not. If not, **** her (Not literally)(Maybe literally).

Wow, thanks guys that really made me think about it, I never thought about it in the ways you guys said.

She has changed, in high school she could of been a real b*tch at times. But lately she's told me she's changed in a good way, like got more mature now that we are older and stuff.

I think I'll do that though, I'll go for a walk with her and just say hey, I'm not gunna wait forever, it's me or him. Make your choice. Part of the reason were doing this again is because the other dude is a total dickhead. Loves to drink beer and just a straight up a**hole.

Made me think hard about this. Thank you.

bang and run :y:

Yeah, it's always a good idea to tell her that you love her. If you just tell her you love her, either she'll feel the same, or she won't, and she'll let you know about that, if she does feel the same, then just go for it, if she doesn't then, just do what you're doing now and hopefully get her to like you more. :y:

Good luck man.

Just tell her what you think of her
and then she'll say if she thinks the same
if she don't like you tell her to **** off and never go near her again
Good Luck