(adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); I dont know why im sharing this but wtf here it goes.I just got a phone call from my real dad 20 years since he last saw me i dont remember him but hes adament he wants to met me,but im not sure if i want to meet him were the fck has he been all my life.Im 21 btw and this has my head spinning i dont know what to do should i hear him out or should i beat the shit out of him my head is fcked up has anyone ever dealt with a situation like this id like to hear some opinions b4 i make a decision well thats about it thanks for reading and plz be nice as my head is really fcked up and im thinking of fcking his head up well thats about it plz leave genuine responses or dont respond at all thanks guys.

Just want to thank everyone for posting their nice comments and personnal experiences means alot.

My real father left me and my mother when I was 2 (am now 16) he has never tried to contact me. Based on the things that my mother has told me, If I saw him today I would beat the shit out of him. It really depends on if there are things in your past, thats really it. If he has done something to you/family he might actually feel bad about it and want to talk to you. Ya never know.

I hope everything works out.

You should but bring someone along, because it could be some dangerous guy you don't know, he might take advantages of you :carling:

it wouldnt hurt to meet him

According to one of my friends once it's pretty awkward but he's 17 he says his father tried to explain to himself why he hasnt called him until now and after that, that it just turned out into a regular conversation like what he does, what his interestes pretty much getting to know each other but it was still awkward overall

Hey man im sure it took guts to post something so personal. So here you go, I repped you +130: You must login or register to view this content. :y: :love:

Well this happened to my friend His dad left when he was 3 and my friend found him when he was 20 and his dad wrote him every 2 months for 20 years and sent them to him but my friend never got them because his mom .. so maybe he is a nice guy u never know till u see for your own eyes

It's a decision only you can make. He did abandon you so he won't judge you if you decide not to meet him, or kick his head in.

My sister has just recently met up with her real Dad , She also had mixed feelings about meeting him. But they did meet and now my sis is really happy. Maybe you should have a good talk on the phone tell him your feelings and go from there. Anyway good luck on whatever you decide