(adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); So i ran across this section, and saw some other threads about the same thing(almost) and i could really use some advice right now. Recently i got dumped, but the way it was phrased(if any ones curious to as what it is, lemme know) but im not sure if i should wait and give her time or just try to find someone else. =/

Dumped sounds a bit harsh,i prefer to call it "separation".
Perhaps it might help if you gave us more info regarding your "separation", thereby allowing us to properly diagnose and give you a more accurate answer.

i live by the one and only : **** B!7Ch3s G3T m$n3Y
UNLESS ofc ur 24+ and it was going to marriage.

well she said that she cant handle a relationship at the moment. i cudnt tell if that means lets wait a lil while or her nice way of saying i dont wanna date yu anymore

She may be having other pressing issues in her life, therefore putting your relationship with her on the backburner.
I wouldn't second guess as you won't know the truth,but ask her why she can't handle a relationship?
But at the same time be understanding for her reasons as well.

i wud ask her, but i get the feeling its not guna do any good for me as she might get annoyed or sumthing idk

Either you are a youngster or are very low on confidence. Either way there is a lot of fish in the sea and if she didn't want to be with you, then you will definitely find someone who will so don't waste any of your time on her it's not worth it.

Never assume as you won't know the outcome,and if you don't ask her,you'll never know m8.

low on confidence. yeah i tell my self tht all the time it doesnt work

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yeah i guess yur right.

No matter how bad sometimes you think your situation is,think this..There is someone, somewhere,in a much worse situation than you.
Confidence,self esteem is all about mind over matter..think about it.
Why is it that some people can do certain things and you can not?
It's because you "think" you can not do it,it's too hard,it's impossible etc..
These are what's called "negative" thoughts.
Try to think in a positive manner.If other people can do it,so can you!
Think :
"I can do it."
"I will do it."
Nothing is too hard in this life,and if I don't succeed,I know I tried my bloody hardest,and that is an achievement to me.
Be positive,Think positive !