(adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); Ok, so I am 16, and this really hot girl I am attracted to is 15. We are both freshman. We dated when we were back in 7th grade, and we broke up because she just wanted to be friends () Now, she kind of likes me again. I have been really nice to her in the past giving her things, or complimenting her. She just told me yesterday she likes me again, so I decided to maybe take it to the next level again. The only problem is.... I'm bad at starting conversations. A carnival is coming up soon so I might ask her to that first. So could you guys give me some advice about what to talk about, or how to approach her? Also, since we text message a lot, maybe some things to talk about while texting because sometimes we just end up saying "so......," "yup," "hmm." It really gets nowhere from there. :lol:


Also, I am not some freakish nerd. Her friends like me, and think I am funny and cute. So being an outsider won't be a problem here.

Thanks guys. :y:

make jokes and start off the conversation with a statement
if you start a conversation with a question, it will die in seconds
for example
'these ****ing carnies are such scum lool'
then you eventually will have a long conversation that would change to many different topics rather then just 'so how are you lol'
good luck bro

You dated in 7th grade and you've been friends since and you still don't know how to start a conversation with her? :confused:

People have different paces, and I would happen to be very slow.

Hey dude I used to have this problem too, like i would shit myself about seeing a girl incase it went all awkward turtle.. :L
But i found out that when we met up there were always things to talk about, like you dont always have to come up with things, she will too And as your at a carnival there should be loads to talk about For example, what kind of rides she likes and joke about the carnees and stuff like that Mosrt importantly though.. BE YOURSELF Remember, she likes you for who you are so dont try and be some funny guy if you arent funny Hope this helps and good luck :y:

- A Kid Called Cudi..

BE a man, Man up and ask her out, dont **** about just come out and say it.

^Saying it like that makes it sound easy, making a very long explanation makes you think.

Never think, just act, Thinking is for people that want answers, You want reponses!

Never think!
Always Win
Get the girl

Mission achieved!

Thanks guys for the responses. :y:

you think thats a problem a 12 year old fancies me!!!! im 16, that'l be one to tell my parents :L, and you also do not want advice to me cuz all i gotta say to girls is either buttsecks or i dont see a kitchen here *insert pimp slap here*

If you run out of things to talk about,there's always your surroundings,environment,where you are etc.
You can always bring up your earlier childhood years during a conversation as they're usually one of the most funniest to talk about,no matter how silly it is(which will net you some brownie points for making her laugh)
Talk about each others likes,dislikes (to better know each other)..anything from clothes,footwear,foods,people etc(there's tonnes of stuff to talk about).
If you're afraid the conversation is going nowhere or not interesting,always bring up a subject that there's a lot to talk about,like the above mentioned as an example.
And when she's talking,listen to her,and ask her questions about the subject at hand as this shows you're taking an interest in her(more brownie points).
I think you get the drift?
Not everyone is born with flawless social skills,therefore we have to make the most of what we have and improve on it.
Be confident in what you say and do,and you'll be right.
But if you make a mistake,don't be afraid to admit it,just say "my bad".
Good Luck bud.

This is why she dumped you the first time. You can't be yourself and just talk to each other. Sorry to be a doucher, but there's no chemistry if you can't just talk to her and make her laugh.