Post: A Serious Dilemma.
05-17-2011, 07:55 PM #1
i--DanieL_
Edgier than an octagon
(adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); Okay guys, before you start to read, this is a serious thread. I really need help so I would like you all to try to be mature for a moment, I'm feeling really down at the moment over this and I actually don't know what else to do.

Here we go I was texting and talking to a girl Megan for quite a while now and I really like her. Before the weekend I asked her to shift me in school and she said yea. My friend, Keith was with her about two months ago and he kept saying to me " I'm not talking to you" but later he would say "I'm only messing, the look on your face!".

So the weekend passed and nothing more happened and on Monday, after school I shifted her and stuff. While I was out in the meeting area, I saw Keith with a different girl so I thought he was messing with me for sure.

So I went home and it was all plain sailing until seven o'clock today. When Megan sent me a huge message saying how Keith wasn't messing about with me and how the still really liked Megan and that she had to choose between me and him. If she choose me then he would never talk to either of us again.

I really really like this girl and I just don't know what to do, some of you guys out there have experience with relationships so it would be appreciated if you helped me out.

Thanks for reading.
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05-17-2011, 08:22 PM #11
i--DanieL_
Edgier than an octagon
Originally posted by B
You've fallen for her? Well.... There's your first mistake...

If she's put in the position to choose, let her choose...


Yes, that was defiantly a mistake.
Look, I will put it this way, If you were crazy about someone would you just sit back and let all the shit happen when you know you could be doing something about it? I know I wouldn't.

Originally posted by Moreton View Post
you Be :fa: then


I really don't want that to happen.
05-17-2011, 08:23 PM #12
ghostbear
Vaulted cur
A real friend would not make you choose. A real friend would say you want her take her, just let me know how it was over a beer. A real friend doesn't care who ya date.

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05-17-2011, 08:32 PM #13
NDM-Dr0pSh0Ts
Error… Cat invasion!
Originally posted by i
Okay guys, before you start to read, this is a serious thread. I really need help so I would like you all to try to be mature for a moment, I'm feeling really down at the moment over this and I actually don't know what else to do.

Here we go I was texting and talking to a girl Megan for quite a while now and I really like her. Before the weekend I asked her to shift me in school and she said yea. My friend, Keith was with her about two months ago and he kept saying to me " I'm not talking to you" but later he would say "I'm only messing, the look on your face!".

So the weekend passed and nothing more happened and on Monday, after school I shifted her and stuff. While I was out in the meeting area, I saw Keith with a different girl so I thought he was messing with me for sure.

So I went home and it was all plain sailing until seven o'clock today. When Megan sent me a huge message saying how Keith wasn't messing about with me and how the still really liked Megan and that she had to choose between me and him. If she choose me then he would never talk to either of us again.

I really really like this girl and I just don't know what to do, some of you guys out there have experience with relationships so it would be appreciated if you helped me out.

Thanks for reading.


i say go for the girl , tell her what you mean to her , and be sweet and try to win her over , because obviously he's not ur friend if he knows ur feeling her and he's making her choose just to be a dick then he's not a real friend
05-17-2011, 08:59 PM #14
NeedaLifeSoon
Retired Life
Originally posted by i
Yes, that was defiantly a mistake.
Look, I will put it this way, If you were crazy about someone would you just sit back and let all the shit happen when you know you could be doing something about it? I know I wouldn't.

I really don't want that to happen.


If you have lost your heart to her than you have to fight for her.
Tell her You have chosen her and you are not going to hide your feelings from anyone. You hav e told your ex-friend that you want her.
I'm afraid that you are going to get hurt because she seems to have some feelings for him or she wouldn't have to tell you about making a choice.
Go for her but be prepared to lose them both!!
Good luck..

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05-17-2011, 09:01 PM #15
i--DanieL_
Edgier than an octagon
Originally posted by NeedaLifeSoon View Post
If you have lost your heart to her than you have to fight for her.
Tell her You have chosen her and you are not going to hide your feelings from anyone. You hav e told your ex-friend that you want her.
I'm afraid that you are going to get hurt because she seems to have some feelings for him or she wouldn't have to tell you about making a choice.
Go for her but be prepared to lose them both!!
Good luck..


Okay thanks man. I'm going to try it and I will tell you how it goes!

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