Post: Omfg need help
06-06-2011, 01:52 AM #1
.Kane.
Banned
(adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); My old gf just found out shes pregnant and well she and I think it's mine....

What should I do she broke up with me a few days before my b-day. It really could be another guys but idk. Tell me what you guys think.

I really think it might be mine because we had sex a couple days before she broke up with me and we didn't use a condom.
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06-06-2011, 01:57 AM #2
ichris26
The Muff Muncher
That is what happens when you don't wear a condemn......

I got 2 boys myself but mine were planned.

Sorry bro
06-06-2011, 01:59 AM #3
.Kane.
Banned
Originally posted by ichris26 View Post
That is what happens when you don't wear a condemn......

I got 2 boys myself but mine were planned.

Sorry bro


I kind of wanted a kid but not until like 2 or so years. She wants to get back with me too. Idk man.
06-06-2011, 02:06 AM #4
Millz
Worth the Weight
Run and hop the Mexican border. :carling:

No really, I hope that everything works out for you. Really, wear a Condom. As long as you have some sort of job, and aren't still in school, you still should be okay with a child.


Hope for the best :y:
06-06-2011, 02:09 AM #5
Cudder
Read My Mind
Can you get blood tests on unborn babies? That's the route id take.
06-06-2011, 02:15 AM #6
ichris26
The Muff Muncher
Originally posted by Kane
I kind of wanted a kid but not until like 2 or so years. She wants to get back with me too. Idk man.


Well, things work out for a reason.......maybe it was meant for you two to get back together this way.

I say as long as you both want to work it out then everything will be fine. Kids can be fun.
06-06-2011, 02:19 AM #7
Tree
Clearly Outplayed
Hope you don't have to pay child support.
06-06-2011, 02:23 AM #8
.Kane.
Banned
Originally posted by Millz59 View Post
Run and hop the Mexican border. :carling:

No really, I hope that everything works out for you. Really, wear a Condom. As long as you have some sort of job, and aren't still in school, you still should be okay with a child.


Hope for the best :y:


That's the bad thing. I have one more year of school. Also having sex without a condom is 100% better except for th baby that might come.

---------- Post added at 09:22 PM ---------- Previous post was at 09:21 PM ----------

Originally posted by Cudder View Post
Can you get blood tests on unborn babies? That's the route id take.


Idk i'll look into it.

---------- Post added at 09:22 PM ---------- Previous post was at 09:22 PM ----------

Originally posted by ichris26 View Post
Well, things work out for a reason.......maybe it was meant for you two to get back together this way.

I say as long as you both want to work it out then everything will be fine. Kids can be fun.


I think this is going to turn out bad.

---------- Post added at 09:23 PM ---------- Previous post was at 09:22 PM ----------

Originally posted by Tree View Post
Hope you don't have to pay child support.


I'll pay child support as long as its my baby. Idc. I do not want one of my own kids go starving because their mom is too much of a bitch to get a job.
06-06-2011, 03:28 AM #9
...All I can say is - Good luck Bud! And why did you guys even break up when you guys had sex.... A few days before you broke up!? :confused:
06-06-2011, 03:43 AM #10
IL--U--IK--IE
At least I can fight
Originally posted by Kane
My old gf just found out shes pregnant and well she and I think it's mine....

What should I do she broke up with me a few days before my b-day. It really could be another guys but idk. Tell me what you guys think.

I really think it might be mine because we had sex a couple days before she broke up with me and we didn't use a condom.


I know this isn't a time for a history lesson, but I like to follow these 3 rules when having sex.

  1. Wear a condom
  2. Make sure she is on the pill
  3. Pull out

With one out three, you should usually be okay. Two is an even safer bet. And three is pretty much a guarantee there will be no baby making.

The only way you will be able to know if the baby is yours is if you have a paternity DNA test. This must be done after the baby is born. There are a few questions you should ask her. Tell her to be truthful.

Ask her...

  • Have you had sex with 1 or more guys since we broke up?
  • Did you take a pregnancy test?
  • When was your last period?


If you do end up being the father, you need to be the best dad you can be. Even if you don't like the girl anymore, you need to get used to her because she may be the mother of your child. That's the rest of your life right there.

If you find out the baby is not yours, I suggest you follow 2 out of every 3 rules when having sex. Use this as a lesson.

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