Originally posted by Kane
My old gf just found out shes pregnant and well she and I think it's mine....
What should I do she broke up with me a few days before my b-day. It really could be another guys but idk. Tell me what you guys think.
I really think it might be mine because we had sex a couple days before she broke up with me and we didn't use a condom.
I know this isn't a time for a history lesson, but I like to follow these 3 rules when having sex.
- Wear a condom
- Make sure she is on the pill
- Pull out
With one out three, you should usually be okay. Two is an even safer bet. And three is pretty much a guarantee there will be no baby making.
The only way you will be able to know if the baby is yours is if you have a paternity DNA test. This must be done after the baby is born. There are a few questions you should ask her. Tell her to be truthful.
Ask her...
- Have you had sex with 1 or more guys since we broke up?
- Did you take a pregnancy test?
- When was your last period?
If you do end up being the father, you need to be the best dad you can be. Even if you don't like the girl anymore, you need to get used to her because she may be the mother of your child. That's the rest of your life right there.
If you find out the baby is not yours, I suggest you follow 2 out of every 3 rules when having sex. Use this as a lesson.