Originally posted by N3xtG3nUpdat3
Okay guys before I get started, I know this is a "game" site. I just need help it seems like, I can't be open with people I know in real life. So, sorry if this is "not good" to do. I just feel like you guys are a big HUGE family. Anyway, back to the problem. So me and my girlfriend, I don't know what to do. I love her so much, it's just I don't know if she or I are happy anymore. Gosh, I just want us to be together. I don't know if it can happen though. It's like we always get on each others nerves, and we useually fight. But when we are actually together, it's like we have the best time ever. It's just when we text and stuff. I'm just not "feeling" it. I guess you could say. I know I'm gonna shead a tear, acutally I think I'm about to start sheading a few tears writeing this. I just need help, I think I'm loseing my mind. I'm 15 and we have been together for 6 mounths. I just need help guys, and y'all are all I could think of to help. So please guys. I know I'm probably gonna get flammed by alot of people. I don't mind. As long as theres that one person out there, that will actually talk to me an be truthful with me. Like I said you guys are like my "internet family."
Please Help Me.
I've been with my girlfriend for three years now. I apologize to you for the fact that your going through some tough times. 6 months on a teenage time line is actually quite a while. I haven't seen a topic like this, but there's nothing wrong with asking. As mentioned, it may not be meant to be.
However, I understand that is not what your looking for. What you two need to do, is meet up with each other on a particular day, and have a sit down talk. No matter what, you need to swallow your pride, and talk to her about the issues. What you know is your fault, accept it. Whatever is her fault, she needs to look at it from your view and see what is causing the animosity in this relationship. It's possible to have a successful relationship, all it takes is will and compromise.
Talk it out with her, sit down, and once the negative is out of the way, tell her how you feel about her. Many guys will take their girlfriend for granted and stop being the same person that got them there. Don't treat her as just a friend, treat her as that someone special that you had once had your thoughts solely focused on. If it's still the case, reassure her. You need to just be willing to fix it with her, if she is willing to fix it with you. You seem to care about her a lot, so she probably feels the same.
The talk with her is going to be nerve wracking, but don't think about it, or plan what your going to say, say it and do it the day you speak to her. She'll tell your legitimate and it's from the heart. Rekindle that spark, and grip the relationship tighter than you ever have before.
I truly hope that this results in your relationship becoming better than ever. I wish you the best,and apologize for the cliche nature of this post. Best of luck to you.