Originally posted by SLiiTH3R
Okay so my high school is having theyre first party of this semester and we all know what goes on there. Dubbing and dancing. Anyways i know myself and others are nervous and dont really know how to dance or like how you should dub a girl. I have little experience because i usually only go to prom for my dance and its really fun. But im sort of nervous for this one so post your tips here and help us party n00bs out , thank you!
First off don't be a busta. Be real, none of that fake shit.. Second of don't be so nervous! Shit happens, chances are you will rarely if not ever hear from these people after highschool.
I didn't attend as many dances as I wish I would have.. I missed my senior prom, but I had one hell of a night that night.. Long story some bitch tried to **** me over, then my friend's girl ****ed him over.. We got drunk crashed a couple parties and met a couple new ladies!
Be cool, if you can't dance don't attempt by yourself. I mean yeah you can kind of feel the beat and do a little head nod thing. But not knowing how to dance can come in handy. If a chick wants you to dance kind of lean in and tell her you "don't know how really and would you teach me".
The most important thing is to relax, do some slow deep breathing, realize that the night will not be bad, that it will be a pretty amazing night.
I was in the same situation most of my life, easily nervous about things.. But I often realized after doing whatever, that it was pointless to be nervous.
Do not be afraid to show / say your nervous, just control yourself so you don't freak out and do something silly. Ex, I used to bite the collar of my shirt when I was nervous and some chicks found this rather cute.. But my biggest downfall was I would get a dry mouth, and say everything assbackwords like really night good or I would kind of stutter.
Finally... Just have fun.
Edit: Fixed a few typos.. I apologize for the poor grammar and errors.. Posting in rush.