You are starting right here, ask sincere questions about getting advice.
Avoid the path of the troll, it is the hardest path to follow
Keep a sense of humor, be honest, be humble, and don't post what you don't know about.
Hang out in the shout box, say Hi to people, especially to others that say hi and are not responded too.
Use the advice above there and members will eventually respond and accept you.
listen more than talk and you'll do fine here.
Hope to see you around the forums more