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10-16-2011, 02:53 PM
#1
Dabbi
THE ICELANDIC MAN
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There is this girl lets call her "Sara". So i've known Sara for a long time, didn't start talking to her much until 2007 and then i was 11 years old and she was 12, we were often outside playing soccer with friends from our town, yeah we live in a small town. and then i started to like her in 2008 and we were still going outside to play soccer and i always walked with her to the pitch (the place where we play soccer) and then i felt uncomfortable because i didn't know shit to talk about, at that time there were awkward silence's and i hated that. We went outside once, Me Sara and her girlfriend that was 2 years older than me and 1 year older than her we went to the playground, it all started by the evening we were 3 of us and another kids playing soccer and we had fun then i came home to facebook and started to talk to her and she asked me if i wanted to come to the playground and the time was 00:00, so it was kind of late for a 12 year old boy but i went anyway. When i got there Sara and her friend (lets call her "Kate" ) sat in the swings and i sat into another swing that was like 3-5 meters away from where they sat. That night we didn't talk about much the most said word was "Awkward Silence" and then they laughed.
So now it is 2009 and i still liked Sara but i never told her about it.
We were always chatting on MSN we both had webcams and we had fun and laughed and we talked ALOT! like i started talking to her at 16:00 and we went to sleep at like 01:00 (9 hours, or less.) We did that often in the winter time, didn't go out much because the weather was shitty so i just talked to her on MSN and sometimes we met in school and that was kinda awkward, i never said nothing. But when talking on MSN we could talk for hours and that feeling was awesome. She was always asking me if she was cute and i always said "Yes you are cute! Very cute" I always said.
In the summer of 2009 we went again to play soccer and we had fun and we played alot, and i walked with her sometimes to the pitch and it was getting a little bit comfortable talking to her but still awkward silences. Me Sara and Kate went again to the playground and it was still so awkward but we talked about something that i cant remember about and we did that 2 times that summer i think.
So in 2010 i could talk to Sara little bit more but we still talked alot more on Facebook/MSN and it was fun
I still liked her at the time and we went to play soccer alot and with her friend Kate we went to the playground and talked about more and more things but still it was kind of awkward.At that time i started to like her Facebook profile pictures and talking to her like in more flirty way like saying that she is Cute and stuff. Then when i was in school everywas saying that Me and Sara were a couple or like You like Sara and i denied. But yeah in that year at the cafeteria in school i started to make eye contacts and like make some faces and she smiled and i smiled and i really liked her at that moment. But i was always a friend of her i think, but i liked her and never told her. But when her friend Kate asked me if i liked her i said Yes so she must'ave said something to her, i dont know. But yeah we started talking little bit more face to face and i liked it but still there were awkward silences.
Now in 2011 going to make a little story about 2011.
In the winter we just talked on Facebook and sometimes in school like i would play pool with her or something. We still made the eye contact in the cafeteria and i liked it and i started talking more to her on facebook and face to face and at the moment i really liked her! So the summer has come and we were playing soccer she always asked me if i wanted to come out, and she always told me to ask a close friend of mine (lets call him "John" ) and he always came to the pitch with us and there were alot of kids there to, and at that moment i still liked Sara but i kind of knew that she liked John because on her "Formspring" there was a question about who is the cutes guy in the class i am in and she always said John never mentioned me, she only mentioned me when there was like who is the who is the most funny/friendly guy in the class, and i was always the answer.
She was starting to tell me about some guys that she thought were cute and i just said okey why dont u talk to him, something like that. And i still liked her but i didn't say anything, i spent alot of time with her that summer and I had a great time. But now in the past month she has been getting feelings for a guy in another town ( Lets call him "Peter", close to mine where i play soccer with, Peter practises with me everyweek and it just kills me to see him but i hide me feelings. I always say to him like Peter you hussliin Sara and he always laughs, and he is talking alot about Sara to me. But i like Sara so, and i asked Sara on the facebook chat if she liked him and she said "Who knows" and i said "i know" she said good for you. The next day i walked with her to school and i called her Sara and the last name of Peter and she was like shut up and we were laughing and stuff and i just really like her and i thinks she likes me also because she likes my photos on facebook and always talks to me on facebook and wants me to walk with her to school and we have a great time.
So fellow NGU People,
am i friendzoned?
How do i get her to like me?
I AM MAD <3
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10-17-2011, 02:08 AM
#21
longdong
Haxor!
Being in a friend zone is just one more step to make before becoming a couple. My advise to you is to use the friend zone as an advantage.....joke allot with her and slip in some sexual content (be smooth about it). You see being in the friend zone allows you some space to be silly with her because she wont take it too serious..... Also try to seal the deal by planting a kiss on her, if she is disgusted by the gesture them you have no chance in hell to make her your girlfriend...... ......but i am willing to bet that you do have a chance to make her your girlfriend because your already friends with her.....and when your alone with her and that akward silence begins, thats the perfect time to but some moves on her, initiate light touching....Also my last piece of advice is ," live life to the fullest without any regret". Grow some balls!!!, you should ask her any question you might regret not asking her later in time.
peace dude.
peace dude.
10-17-2011, 02:43 AM
#22
deathkid1212
I’m too L33T
Originally posted by MomasBoyOnline
Her eyes are too far apart. Nose is definitely crooked. The shape of herr face is not aesthetically pleasing at all. She looks like a 3/10 with make up in this photo. I don't even want to imagine what she looks like without make up. I actually just threw up in my mouth, just thinking about it.
Herr head is too big (although that may be, because of herr giraffe neck posture). As for herr hair, lol. Seriously, she needs to do something. She looks like a horse.
Stare at herr face for more than 5 seconds, and you will see how ugly she is. The eyes which are too far apart is what ruins/damages an already ugly face even further. Unfortunately for her, that can't be surgically fixed, lol.
Her arms are way too long. lol at how they hang by her sides. Kind of reminds me of lurch. As for her tits, we all know there is extra padding there. Don't even let me start on herr pale complexion. It only works if you look hot. Unfortunately, she does not look hot. Its hard to sum up a creature like her in one word. 'UGLY' would be unfair, since it doesn't reflect how repulsive she looks. GROTESQUE is stretching it. But somewhere in between, is where she would be, on the scale of an average woman.
I'm sorry if my words seem a little harsh. Just so you know, I sugar coated this post as much as possible.
Have a nice day.
Herr head is too big (although that may be, because of herr giraffe neck posture). As for herr hair, lol. Seriously, she needs to do something. She looks like a horse.
Stare at herr face for more than 5 seconds, and you will see how ugly she is. The eyes which are too far apart is what ruins/damages an already ugly face even further. Unfortunately for her, that can't be surgically fixed, lol.
Her arms are way too long. lol at how they hang by her sides. Kind of reminds me of lurch. As for her tits, we all know there is extra padding there. Don't even let me start on herr pale complexion. It only works if you look hot. Unfortunately, she does not look hot. Its hard to sum up a creature like her in one word. 'UGLY' would be unfair, since it doesn't reflect how repulsive she looks. GROTESQUE is stretching it. But somewhere in between, is where she would be, on the scale of an average woman.
I'm sorry if my words seem a little harsh. Just so you know, I sugar coated this post as much as possible.
Have a nice day.
Quick question... since when was posting rape in your signature allowed?
10-17-2011, 02:59 AM
#23
Null ReacT
Most Dope!
Originally posted by Dabbi
So fellow NGU People,
am i friendzoned?
How do i get her to like me?
I AM MAD <3
Dude, not to be a buzz kill. But I think she thinks your gay.. or you'r stuck in the friend zone either too. But nows your chance you see she's starting to like somebody else and that guy likes her too. Make your move NOW. Life is short live it well you can. Remember rejection means nothing to you! Dont be embarrassed nobody in school remembers anything past a week dude. Get it out of your way.
Another thing, every girl you ever liked has done something to make you like her. So basically if you really like her, chances are she likes you too. If she talks about boys with you, she may want to see if you get jealous... I don't know. I've never been in a relationship before. But I'd go for it bro. :y:
You have nothing to loose. Plenty of other bitches in the sea
10-17-2011, 03:16 AM
#25
killway1
OG?
Originally posted by Dabbi
Hey guys Dabbi here with a short story about a girl that i like, and i want your answer, No trolls. No Hatin.
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There is this girl lets call her "Sara". So i've known Sara for a long time, didn't start talking to her much until 2007 and then i was 11 years old and she was 12, we were often outside playing soccer with friends from our town, yeah we live in a small town. and then i started to like her in 2008 and we were still going outside to play soccer and i always walked with her to the pitch (the place where we play soccer) and then i felt uncomfortable because i didn't know shit to talk about, at that time there were awkward silence's and i hated that. We went outside once, Me Sara and her girlfriend that was 2 years older than me and 1 year older than her we went to the playground, it all started by the evening we were 3 of us and another kids playing soccer and we had fun then i came home to facebook and started to talk to her and she asked me if i wanted to come to the playground and the time was 00:00, so it was kind of late for a 12 year old boy but i went anyway. When i got there Sara and her friend (lets call her "Kate" ) sat in the swings and i sat into another swing that was like 3-5 meters away from where they sat. That night we didn't talk about much the most said word was "Awkward Silence" and then they laughed.
So now it is 2009 and i still liked Sara but i never told her about it.
We were always chatting on MSN we both had webcams and we had fun and laughed and we talked ALOT! like i started talking to her at 16:00 and we went to sleep at like 01:00 (9 hours, or less.) We did that often in the winter time, didn't go out much because the weather was shitty so i just talked to her on MSN and sometimes we met in school and that was kinda awkward, i never said nothing. But when talking on MSN we could talk for hours and that feeling was awesome. She was always asking me if she was cute and i always said "Yes you are cute! Very cute" I always said.
In the summer of 2009 we went again to play soccer and we had fun and we played alot, and i walked with her sometimes to the pitch and it was getting a little bit comfortable talking to her but still awkward silences. Me Sara and Kate went again to the playground and it was still so awkward but we talked about something that i cant remember about and we did that 2 times that summer i think.
So in 2010 i could talk to Sara little bit more but we still talked alot more on Facebook/MSN and it was fun I still liked her at the time and we went to play soccer alot and with her friend Kate we went to the playground and talked about more and more things but still it was kind of awkward.
At that time i started to like her Facebook profile pictures and talking to her like in more flirty way like saying that she is Cute and stuff. Then when i was in school everywas saying that Me and Sara were a couple or like You like Sara and i denied. But yeah in that year at the cafeteria in school i started to make eye contacts and like make some faces and she smiled and i smiled and i really liked her at that moment. But i was always a friend of her i think, but i liked her and never told her. But when her friend Kate asked me if i liked her i said Yes so she must'ave said something to her, i dont know. But yeah we started talking little bit more face to face and i liked it but still there were awkward silences.
Now in 2011 going to make a little story about 2011.
In the winter we just talked on Facebook and sometimes in school like i would play pool with her or something. We still made the eye contact in the cafeteria and i liked it and i started talking more to her on facebook and face to face and at the moment i really liked her! So the summer has come and we were playing soccer she always asked me if i wanted to come out, and she always told me to ask a close friend of mine (lets call him "John" ) and he always came to the pitch with us and there were alot of kids there to, and at that moment i still liked Sara but i kind of knew that she liked John because on her "Formspring" there was a question about who is the cutes guy in the class i am in and she always said John never mentioned me, she only mentioned me when there was like who is the who is the most funny/friendly guy in the class, and i was always the answer.
She was starting to tell me about some guys that she thought were cute and i just said okey why dont u talk to him, something like that. And i still liked her but i didn't say anything, i spent alot of time with her that summer and I had a great time. But now in the past month she has been getting feelings for a guy in another town ( Lets call him "Peter", close to mine where i play soccer with, Peter practises with me everyweek and it just kills me to see him but i hide me feelings. I always say to him like Peter you hussliin Sara and he always laughs, and he is talking alot about Sara to me. But i like Sara so, and i asked Sara on the facebook chat if she liked him and she said "Who knows" and i said "i know" she said good for you. The next day i walked with her to school and i called her Sara and the last name of Peter and she was like shut up and we were laughing and stuff and i just really like her and i thinks she likes me also because she likes my photos on facebook and always talks to me on facebook and wants me to walk with her to school and we have a great time.
So fellow NGU People,
am i friendzoned?
How do i get her to like me?
I AM MAD <3
Before reading, here's a pic:
You must login or register to view this content.
There is this girl lets call her "Sara". So i've known Sara for a long time, didn't start talking to her much until 2007 and then i was 11 years old and she was 12, we were often outside playing soccer with friends from our town, yeah we live in a small town. and then i started to like her in 2008 and we were still going outside to play soccer and i always walked with her to the pitch (the place where we play soccer) and then i felt uncomfortable because i didn't know shit to talk about, at that time there were awkward silence's and i hated that. We went outside once, Me Sara and her girlfriend that was 2 years older than me and 1 year older than her we went to the playground, it all started by the evening we were 3 of us and another kids playing soccer and we had fun then i came home to facebook and started to talk to her and she asked me if i wanted to come to the playground and the time was 00:00, so it was kind of late for a 12 year old boy but i went anyway. When i got there Sara and her friend (lets call her "Kate" ) sat in the swings and i sat into another swing that was like 3-5 meters away from where they sat. That night we didn't talk about much the most said word was "Awkward Silence" and then they laughed.
So now it is 2009 and i still liked Sara but i never told her about it.
We were always chatting on MSN we both had webcams and we had fun and laughed and we talked ALOT! like i started talking to her at 16:00 and we went to sleep at like 01:00 (9 hours, or less.) We did that often in the winter time, didn't go out much because the weather was shitty so i just talked to her on MSN and sometimes we met in school and that was kinda awkward, i never said nothing. But when talking on MSN we could talk for hours and that feeling was awesome. She was always asking me if she was cute and i always said "Yes you are cute! Very cute" I always said.
In the summer of 2009 we went again to play soccer and we had fun and we played alot, and i walked with her sometimes to the pitch and it was getting a little bit comfortable talking to her but still awkward silences. Me Sara and Kate went again to the playground and it was still so awkward but we talked about something that i cant remember about and we did that 2 times that summer i think.
So in 2010 i could talk to Sara little bit more but we still talked alot more on Facebook/MSN and it was fun
I still liked her at the time and we went to play soccer alot and with her friend Kate we went to the playground and talked about more and more things but still it was kind of awkward.At that time i started to like her Facebook profile pictures and talking to her like in more flirty way like saying that she is Cute and stuff. Then when i was in school everywas saying that Me and Sara were a couple or like You like Sara and i denied. But yeah in that year at the cafeteria in school i started to make eye contacts and like make some faces and she smiled and i smiled and i really liked her at that moment. But i was always a friend of her i think, but i liked her and never told her. But when her friend Kate asked me if i liked her i said Yes so she must'ave said something to her, i dont know. But yeah we started talking little bit more face to face and i liked it but still there were awkward silences.
Now in 2011 going to make a little story about 2011.
In the winter we just talked on Facebook and sometimes in school like i would play pool with her or something. We still made the eye contact in the cafeteria and i liked it and i started talking more to her on facebook and face to face and at the moment i really liked her! So the summer has come and we were playing soccer she always asked me if i wanted to come out, and she always told me to ask a close friend of mine (lets call him "John" ) and he always came to the pitch with us and there were alot of kids there to, and at that moment i still liked Sara but i kind of knew that she liked John because on her "Formspring" there was a question about who is the cutes guy in the class i am in and she always said John never mentioned me, she only mentioned me when there was like who is the who is the most funny/friendly guy in the class, and i was always the answer.
She was starting to tell me about some guys that she thought were cute and i just said okey why dont u talk to him, something like that. And i still liked her but i didn't say anything, i spent alot of time with her that summer and I had a great time. But now in the past month she has been getting feelings for a guy in another town ( Lets call him "Peter", close to mine where i play soccer with, Peter practises with me everyweek and it just kills me to see him but i hide me feelings. I always say to him like Peter you hussliin Sara and he always laughs, and he is talking alot about Sara to me. But i like Sara so, and i asked Sara on the facebook chat if she liked him and she said "Who knows" and i said "i know" she said good for you. The next day i walked with her to school and i called her Sara and the last name of Peter and she was like shut up and we were laughing and stuff and i just really like her and i thinks she likes me also because she likes my photos on facebook and always talks to me on facebook and wants me to walk with her to school and we have a great time.
So fellow NGU People,
am i friendzoned?
How do i get her to like me?
I AM MAD <3
alright took me a minute to read all of it but, i see where you coming from... why don't you just ask her if she likes you? if she replies with a question or... "Who Knows" then you gotta try to get the answer out of her or something or just come out and say you like her. She is a beautiful girl so if i was you i wouldn't let her go. Best of luck
,
Killway1
*NOTE* hope your not in friend zone bro ,Killway1
10-17-2011, 10:27 AM
#26
sendastunt
Trophy Hunter
Originally posted by MomasBoyOnline
Her eyes are too far apart. Nose is definitely crooked. The shape of herr face is not aesthetically pleasing at all. She looks like a 3/10 with make up in this photo. I don't even want to imagine what she looks like without make up. I actually just threw up in my mouth, just thinking about it.
Herr head is too big (although that may be, because of herr giraffe neck posture). As for herr hair, lol. Seriously, she needs to do something. She looks like a horse.
Stare at herr face for more than 5 seconds, and you will see how ugly she is. The eyes which are too far apart is what ruins/damages an already ugly face even further. Unfortunately for her, that can't be surgically fixed, lol.
Her arms are way too long. lol at how they hang by her sides. Kind of reminds me of lurch. As for her tits, we all know there is extra padding there. Don't even let me start on herr pale complexion. It only works if you look hot. Unfortunately, she does not look hot. Its hard to sum up a creature like her in one word. 'UGLY' would be unfair, since it doesn't reflect how repulsive she looks. GROTESQUE is stretching it. But somewhere in between, is where she would be, on the scale of an average woman.
I'm sorry if my words seem a little harsh. Just so you know, I sugar coated this post as much as possible.
Have a nice day.
Herr head is too big (although that may be, because of herr giraffe neck posture). As for herr hair, lol. Seriously, she needs to do something. She looks like a horse.
Stare at herr face for more than 5 seconds, and you will see how ugly she is. The eyes which are too far apart is what ruins/damages an already ugly face even further. Unfortunately for her, that can't be surgically fixed, lol.
Her arms are way too long. lol at how they hang by her sides. Kind of reminds me of lurch. As for her tits, we all know there is extra padding there. Don't even let me start on herr pale complexion. It only works if you look hot. Unfortunately, she does not look hot. Its hard to sum up a creature like her in one word. 'UGLY' would be unfair, since it doesn't reflect how repulsive she looks. GROTESQUE is stretching it. But somewhere in between, is where she would be, on the scale of an average woman.
I'm sorry if my words seem a little harsh. Just so you know, I sugar coated this post as much as possible.
Have a nice day.
I find her pretty cute !
10-21-2011, 07:45 PM
#27
Sniping
Brute
I will tell you how but because you got yourself into the friend zone it will being even herself be size you believe you ads in the friend zone. The slowest move that shows you'd not friends that will decided make or break K's holding her hand. And no, hugging is not the same because. Everyone can do that who is good friends. Holding her hand will show that you really like her. One mistake you can do is doing it while on the move. Dot hold her hand when like walking. Sit her down watch a movie study session. Another thing don't put your hand completely on top of hers allow here space to. Breathe, rest half your palm onto of your hand, what she sill lrobBly do is look at you first because she will think you're trying go veg her attention. What do you do you work it! Give her a smile of lean in closer to her. If she looks happy. T THE END DON'T ASK HER OUT. TELL HER AFTER THE SESSION TOGETHER IT WAS REALLY FUN OF YOU REALLY HAD A GREAT TIME. IF SH ED DOES PULL. AWAY WHEN YOU GO TO HOLD HER HAND IT JUST MEANS SHE IS NOT READY, SHE WILL KNOW YOU LIKE HER THE. MOMENT YOU HOLD HERE HAND AND SMILE SO DON'T TAKE IT back by saying whoops hand slipped or anything, try being AwkRd in purpose Nd her like oh ummmm. I m sorry let her also know you're shy. She will realize it and of you ask here like to a movie the next day she sill know what you want sneak that you're just as shy as she it or maybe not. She talks about other boys around you bebecause she likes you if yo have any more questions Pm me bro. I have been through all of this which.
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Originally posted by Dabbi
Hey guys Dabbi here with a short story about a girl that i like, and i want your answer, No trolls. No Hatin.
Before reading, here's a pic:
You must login or register to view this content.
There is this girl lets call her "Sara". So i've known Sara for a long time, didn't start talking to her much until 2007 and then i was 11 years old and she was 12, we were often outside playing soccer with friends from our town, yeah we live in a small town. and then i started to like her in 2008 and we were still going outside to play soccer and i always walked with her to the pitch (the place where we play soccer) and then i felt uncomfortable because i didn't know shit to talk about, at that time there were awkward silence's and i hated that. We went outside once, Me Sara and her girlfriend that was 2 years older than me and 1 year older than her we went to the playground, it all started by the evening we were 3 of us and another kids playing soccer and we had fun then i came home to facebook and started to talk to her and she asked me if i wanted to come to the playground and the time was 00:00, so it was kind of late for a 12 year old boy but i went anyway. When i got there Sara and her friend (lets call her "Kate" ) sat in the swings and i sat into another swing that was like 3-5 meters away from where they sat. That night we didn't talk about much the most said word was "Awkward Silence" and then they laughed.
So now it is 2009 and i still liked Sara but i never told her about it.
We were always chatting on MSN we both had webcams and we had fun and laughed and we talked ALOT! like i started talking to her at 16:00 and we went to sleep at like 01:00 (9 hours, or less.) We did that often in the winter time, didn't go out much because the weather was shitty so i just talked to her on MSN and sometimes we met in school and that was kinda awkward, i never said nothing. But when talking on MSN we could talk for hours and that feeling was awesome. She was always asking me if she was cute and i always said "Yes you are cute! Very cute" I always said.
In the summer of 2009 we went again to play soccer and we had fun and we played alot, and i walked with her sometimes to the pitch and it was getting a little bit comfortable talking to her but still awkward silences. Me Sara and Kate went again to the playground and it was still so awkward but we talked about something that i cant remember about and we did that 2 times that summer i think.
So in 2010 i could talk to Sara little bit more but we still talked alot more on Facebook/MSN and it was fun I still liked her at the time and we went to play soccer alot and with her friend Kate we went to the playground and talked about more and more things but still it was kind of awkward.
At that time i started to like her Facebook profile pictures and talking to her like in more flirty way like saying that she is Cute and stuff. Then when i was in school everywas saying that Me and Sara were a couple or like You like Sara and i denied. But yeah in that year at the cafeteria in school i started to make eye contacts and like make some faces and she smiled and i smiled and i really liked her at that moment. But i was always a friend of her i think, but i liked her and never told her. But when her friend Kate asked me if i liked her i said Yes so she must'ave said something to her, i dont know. But yeah we started talking little bit more face to face and i liked it but still there were awkward silences.
Now in 2011 going to make a little story about 2011.
In the winter we just talked on Facebook and sometimes in school like i would play pool with her or something. We still made the eye contact in the cafeteria and i liked it and i started talking more to her on facebook and face to face and at the moment i really liked her! So the summer has come and we were playing soccer she always asked me if i wanted to come out, and she always told me to ask a close friend of mine (lets call him "John" ) and he always came to the pitch with us and there were alot of kids there to, and at that moment i still liked Sara but i kind of knew that she liked John because on her "Formspring" there was a question about who is the cutes guy in the class i am in and she always said John never mentioned me, she only mentioned me when there was like who is the who is the most funny/friendly guy in the class, and i was always the answer.
She was starting to tell me about some guys that she thought were cute and i just said okey why dont u talk to him, something like that. And i still liked her but i didn't say anything, i spent alot of time with her that summer and I had a great time. But now in the past month she has been getting feelings for a guy in another town ( Lets call him "Peter", close to mine where i play soccer with, Peter practises with me everyweek and it just kills me to see him but i hide me feelings. I always say to him like Peter you hussliin Sara and he always laughs, and he is talking alot about Sara to me. But i like Sara so, and i asked Sara on the facebook chat if she liked him and she said "Who knows" and i said "i know" she said good for you. The next day i walked with her to school and i called her Sara and the last name of Peter and she was like shut up and we were laughing and stuff and i just really like her and i thinks she likes me also because she likes my photos on facebook and always talks to me on facebook and wants me to walk with her to school and we have a great time.
So fellow NGU People,
am i friendzoned?
How do i get her to like me?
I AM MAD <3
Before reading, here's a pic:
You must login or register to view this content.
There is this girl lets call her "Sara". So i've known Sara for a long time, didn't start talking to her much until 2007 and then i was 11 years old and she was 12, we were often outside playing soccer with friends from our town, yeah we live in a small town. and then i started to like her in 2008 and we were still going outside to play soccer and i always walked with her to the pitch (the place where we play soccer) and then i felt uncomfortable because i didn't know shit to talk about, at that time there were awkward silence's and i hated that. We went outside once, Me Sara and her girlfriend that was 2 years older than me and 1 year older than her we went to the playground, it all started by the evening we were 3 of us and another kids playing soccer and we had fun then i came home to facebook and started to talk to her and she asked me if i wanted to come to the playground and the time was 00:00, so it was kind of late for a 12 year old boy but i went anyway. When i got there Sara and her friend (lets call her "Kate" ) sat in the swings and i sat into another swing that was like 3-5 meters away from where they sat. That night we didn't talk about much the most said word was "Awkward Silence" and then they laughed.
So now it is 2009 and i still liked Sara but i never told her about it.
We were always chatting on MSN we both had webcams and we had fun and laughed and we talked ALOT! like i started talking to her at 16:00 and we went to sleep at like 01:00 (9 hours, or less.) We did that often in the winter time, didn't go out much because the weather was shitty so i just talked to her on MSN and sometimes we met in school and that was kinda awkward, i never said nothing. But when talking on MSN we could talk for hours and that feeling was awesome. She was always asking me if she was cute and i always said "Yes you are cute! Very cute" I always said.
In the summer of 2009 we went again to play soccer and we had fun and we played alot, and i walked with her sometimes to the pitch and it was getting a little bit comfortable talking to her but still awkward silences. Me Sara and Kate went again to the playground and it was still so awkward but we talked about something that i cant remember about and we did that 2 times that summer i think.
So in 2010 i could talk to Sara little bit more but we still talked alot more on Facebook/MSN and it was fun
I still liked her at the time and we went to play soccer alot and with her friend Kate we went to the playground and talked about more and more things but still it was kind of awkward.At that time i started to like her Facebook profile pictures and talking to her like in more flirty way like saying that she is Cute and stuff. Then when i was in school everywas saying that Me and Sara were a couple or like You like Sara and i denied. But yeah in that year at the cafeteria in school i started to make eye contacts and like make some faces and she smiled and i smiled and i really liked her at that moment. But i was always a friend of her i think, but i liked her and never told her. But when her friend Kate asked me if i liked her i said Yes so she must'ave said something to her, i dont know. But yeah we started talking little bit more face to face and i liked it but still there were awkward silences.
Now in 2011 going to make a little story about 2011.
In the winter we just talked on Facebook and sometimes in school like i would play pool with her or something. We still made the eye contact in the cafeteria and i liked it and i started talking more to her on facebook and face to face and at the moment i really liked her! So the summer has come and we were playing soccer she always asked me if i wanted to come out, and she always told me to ask a close friend of mine (lets call him "John" ) and he always came to the pitch with us and there were alot of kids there to, and at that moment i still liked Sara but i kind of knew that she liked John because on her "Formspring" there was a question about who is the cutes guy in the class i am in and she always said John never mentioned me, she only mentioned me when there was like who is the who is the most funny/friendly guy in the class, and i was always the answer.
She was starting to tell me about some guys that she thought were cute and i just said okey why dont u talk to him, something like that. And i still liked her but i didn't say anything, i spent alot of time with her that summer and I had a great time. But now in the past month she has been getting feelings for a guy in another town ( Lets call him "Peter", close to mine where i play soccer with, Peter practises with me everyweek and it just kills me to see him but i hide me feelings. I always say to him like Peter you hussliin Sara and he always laughs, and he is talking alot about Sara to me. But i like Sara so, and i asked Sara on the facebook chat if she liked him and she said "Who knows" and i said "i know" she said good for you. The next day i walked with her to school and i called her Sara and the last name of Peter and she was like shut up and we were laughing and stuff and i just really like her and i thinks she likes me also because she likes my photos on facebook and always talks to me on facebook and wants me to walk with her to school and we have a great time.
So fellow NGU People,
am i friendzoned?
How do i get her to like me?
I AM MAD <3
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