Post: Hello friends :D
10-22-2011, 03:15 AM #1
.Robot
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I met a girl who is exactly like me. We have been talking all day for like a week. She liked a guy before I met her and he recently bitched her out and called her a slut and shit like that. She came to me crying and I made her feel better. She is always kinda flirting with me but she doesn't show any sign of trying to get with me. I really want to go out with her but I don't know exactly how to ask her out.

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10-22-2011, 07:46 PM #11
.Robot
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Originally posted by Ehhx View Post
There is your sign. Go for it.


Are you sure? I'm texting her now. What should I do?
10-22-2011, 07:54 PM #12
Krow
Haxor!
If she is flirting with you, that could be a big sign and you've been missing it.

I say get to know her for a bit longer, then if you feel the same way go for it.
10-22-2011, 07:54 PM #13
Originally posted by .Robot View Post
Are you sure? I'm texting her now. What should I do?
Well I would say it in person. But if your really afraid of rejection txt her but its going to be weird because you won't know what to say after she says yes.

If you want to tell her in person txt her this: Hey I really need to talk to you face to face. When can we meet up?

After you say that and you meet her: Ive known you for a short while now but I feel like we really have a good connection and bond. I really like you and I wanted to ask you if you want to go out with me?

If she says yes then you kiss her and hold her hand.

If she says no say : Okay , I get it. Well hopefully this didn't ruin our friendship and since being together as a couple won't happen is okay to just forget this and lets just be really close friends?

And you will know what to say after.

Allso DON'T HESISTATE to ask her because if you do some other guy will beat you to it. And she will leave with the other guy.
10-22-2011, 08:06 PM #14
.Robot
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Originally posted by Ehhx View Post
Well I would say it in person. But if your really afraid of rejection txt her but its going to be weird because you won't know what to say after she says yes.

If you want to tell her in person txt her this: Hey I really need to talk to you face to face. When can we meet up?

After you say that and you meet her: Ive known you for a short while now but I feel like we really have a good connection and bond. I really like you and I wanted to ask you if you want to go out with me?

If she says yes then you kiss her and hold her hand.

If she says no say : Okay , I get it. Well hopefully this didn't ruin our friendship and since being together as a couple won't happen is okay to just forget this and lets just be really close friends?

And you will know what to say after.

Allso DON'T HESISTATE to ask her because if you do some other guy will beat you to it. And she will leave with the other guy.


Here's the weird thing, I have never even met her but she goes to the school like 10 minutes away from mine. My friend introduced me to her on Facebook. I have no problem meating her in real life though.
10-22-2011, 09:57 PM #15
Originally posted by .Robot View Post
Here's the weird thing, I have never even met her but she goes to the school like 10 minutes away from mine. My friend introduced me to her on Facebook. I have no problem meating her in real life though.
Then don't do anything yet. Meet her for about 1 1/2 weeks and talk to her DAILY in PERSON! After about 1 1/2 weeks (10 days) Make your move. Make sure to show signs of you liking her.
10-22-2011, 09:59 PM #16
.Robot
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Originally posted by Ehhx View Post
Then don't do anything yet. Meet her for about 1 1/2 weeks and talk to her DAILY in PERSON! After about 1 1/2 weeks (10 days) Make your move. Make sure to show signs of you liking her.


OK, but how would I be able to know that she likes me? Like how would I be able to tell?
10-22-2011, 10:17 PM #17
Hazel
Problem rule #16?
Originally posted by .Robot View Post
OK, but how would I be able to know that she likes me? Like how would I be able to tell?

When she asks to see you IRL. Aka when she calls and asks to hang out rather then you calling her. If she does that several times I say go for it. Also major way to tell is blushing and trust me when someone blushes just from looking at you then its obvious.
10-22-2011, 10:26 PM #18
Originally posted by .Robot View Post
OK, but how would I be able to know that she likes me? Like how would I be able to tell?
What that other user said. And you will also notice if she likes you. Hug her and see if she hugs you with 1 hand or two and holds on to the hug or lets go.
10-22-2011, 10:26 PM #19
.Robot
Banned
Originally posted by Pollyannax View Post
When she asks to see you IRL. Aka when she calls and asks to hang out rather then you calling her. If she does that several times I say go for it. Also major way to tell is blushing and trust me when someone blushes just from looking at you then its obvious.


How would I know by what she texts me or tells me over the phone?

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