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11-22-2011, 02:56 AM
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iMLB
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So this thread is a Remembrance thing, and just talk about how you took your loss and how you delt with it to overcome the sadness.
11-22-2011, 03:02 AM
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GE90
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Originally posted by iHULK
Well my grandpa Ron died 2 hours ago and it's a tough thing and I want your guys help to get over the pain of a loss while I help you get over yours.
So this thread is a Remembrance thing, and just talk about how you took your loss and how you delt with it to overcome the sadness.
So this thread is a Remembrance thing, and just talk about how you took your loss and how you delt with it to overcome the sadness.
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11-22-2011, 03:46 AM
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Solo
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Originally posted by Julian
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11-22-2011, 04:37 AM
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Fierceknucks
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Yeah losing a family member sucks. It's strange at first. Seems surreal. But after a while, you start to think through the grief and you realize that life goes on and the person you're grieving over would want you to continue being happy. Death is pretty much the only certain thing in life. You have to understand that being sad, mourning and grieving for a person who has died is a natural thing that you'll go through.
My brother died in a car accident in 2000. He was 19 years old, I was 14. Since I was so young and it was the first time anything tragic like that had happened in my life, my school placed me in a "emotional assistance" program. They explained to me about the five stages of grief. I can't remember them, but they are basically the same as the five stages of death. It's something like; denial, barganing, anger, depression and finally acceptance. In the end, you will come to acceptance and closure, and you will be left with good memories. Depending on how close you were to the person you lost, there will always be times when a thought comes into your head and you'll be sad. But you'll remember that life needs to go on and you can't spend your time being a sad lump on the couch. It's better to think positive and be happy that the person lived at all.
Many people are going to say a lot of cliches to you. Things like "He's in a better place", "God needed him in heaven", etc. While these are comforting, to me they are empty statements from people who just don't know what else to say. The important thing to understand is that they feel your pain and most likely are truly sorry for your loss. Just smile and say thanks.
Last month, my Sister lost her baby. On the baby's due date. Her and I both know what it's like to lose a close family member, but I can not image how hard that must be. But we talked and I told her that I have nothing to say really to her other then "I can't believe this and I'm truly sorry." All she said was " I know." Made a lot of sense to me.
R.I.P Your Grandfather, whatever his name may be.
R.I.P My Brother, Michael Carlson
R.I.P My Niece, Allison Ruiz
My brother died in a car accident in 2000. He was 19 years old, I was 14. Since I was so young and it was the first time anything tragic like that had happened in my life, my school placed me in a "emotional assistance" program. They explained to me about the five stages of grief. I can't remember them, but they are basically the same as the five stages of death. It's something like; denial, barganing, anger, depression and finally acceptance. In the end, you will come to acceptance and closure, and you will be left with good memories. Depending on how close you were to the person you lost, there will always be times when a thought comes into your head and you'll be sad. But you'll remember that life needs to go on and you can't spend your time being a sad lump on the couch. It's better to think positive and be happy that the person lived at all.
Many people are going to say a lot of cliches to you. Things like "He's in a better place", "God needed him in heaven", etc. While these are comforting, to me they are empty statements from people who just don't know what else to say. The important thing to understand is that they feel your pain and most likely are truly sorry for your loss. Just smile and say thanks.
Last month, my Sister lost her baby. On the baby's due date. Her and I both know what it's like to lose a close family member, but I can not image how hard that must be. But we talked and I told her that I have nothing to say really to her other then "I can't believe this and I'm truly sorry." All she said was " I know." Made a lot of sense to me.
R.I.P Your Grandfather, whatever his name may be.
R.I.P My Brother, Michael Carlson
R.I.P My Niece, Allison Ruiz
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11-22-2011, 05:42 AM
#10
192.168.1.1
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Originally posted by Old
Yeah losing a family member sucks. It's strange at first. Seems surreal. But after a while, you start to think through the grief and you realize that life goes on and the person you're grieving over would want you to continue being happy. Death is pretty much the only certain thing in life. You have to understand that being sad, mourning and grieving for a person who has died is a natural thing that you'll go through.
My brother died in a car accident in 2000. He was 19 years old, I was 14. Since I was so young and it was the first time anything tragic like that had happened in my life, my school placed me in a "emotional assistance" program. They explained to me about the five stages of grief. I can't remember them, but they are basically the same as the five stages of death. It's something like; denial, barganing, anger, depression and finally acceptance. In the end, you will come to acceptance and closure, and you will be left with good memories. Depending on how close you were to the person you lost, there will always be times when a thought comes into your head and you'll be sad. But you'll remember that life needs to go on and you can't spend your time being a sad lump on the couch. It's better to think positive and be happy that the person lived at all.
Many people are going to say a lot of cliches to you. Things like "He's in a better place", "God needed him in heaven", etc. While these are comforting, to me they are empty statements from people who just don't know what else to say. The important thing to understand is that they feel your pain and most likely are truly sorry for your loss. Just smile and say thanks.
Last month, my Sister lost her baby. On the baby's due date. Her and I both know what it's like to lose a close family member, but I can not image how hard that must be. But we talked and I told her that I have nothing to say really to her other then "I can't believe this and I'm truly sorry." All she said was " I know." Made a lot of sense to me.
R.I.P Your Grandfather, whatever his name may be.
R.I.P My Brother, Michael Carlson
R.I.P My Niece, Allison Ruiz
My brother died in a car accident in 2000. He was 19 years old, I was 14. Since I was so young and it was the first time anything tragic like that had happened in my life, my school placed me in a "emotional assistance" program. They explained to me about the five stages of grief. I can't remember them, but they are basically the same as the five stages of death. It's something like; denial, barganing, anger, depression and finally acceptance. In the end, you will come to acceptance and closure, and you will be left with good memories. Depending on how close you were to the person you lost, there will always be times when a thought comes into your head and you'll be sad. But you'll remember that life needs to go on and you can't spend your time being a sad lump on the couch. It's better to think positive and be happy that the person lived at all.
Many people are going to say a lot of cliches to you. Things like "He's in a better place", "God needed him in heaven", etc. While these are comforting, to me they are empty statements from people who just don't know what else to say. The important thing to understand is that they feel your pain and most likely are truly sorry for your loss. Just smile and say thanks.
Last month, my Sister lost her baby. On the baby's due date. Her and I both know what it's like to lose a close family member, but I can not image how hard that must be. But we talked and I told her that I have nothing to say really to her other then "I can't believe this and I'm truly sorry." All she said was " I know." Made a lot of sense to me.
R.I.P Your Grandfather, whatever his name may be.
R.I.P My Brother, Michael Carlson
R.I.P My Niece, Allison Ruiz
Always great to see people who still treat this like a community and not just a place to troll. :y:
R.I.P to your Brother, Niece and Hulk's Grandfather
My cousin died in a car crash 5 months ago while I was at flight school I took the day off from school and spent most of the day crying and drinking a mere band-aid for the wound. I couldn't come home (I live in the Cayman Islands and school was in florida) for the funeral as money was really tight and flight school really wasn't cheap so I had to push it out of my head till I finished school 2 months later. It's a shame that he's gone at 19. He always looked out for his family and I'll always remember that.
R.I.P Cousin, Jamie
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