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Now this is a serious thread, no trolling. I have seen a couple of you wanting to ask out a girl, but do not have the courage available to do so. I am here to help.
To start off ignore stupid 14 year olds, that talk about being "playa"'s there not, and just ignore them.
First off you want to find a girl you can talk too, and have lots of stuff in common. The main reason for this is from my personal experience if your trying to hook up with a girl and have nothing to talk with it gets awkward and you don't know what to talk about. She can be good looking, but that's not all too it. Im not saying that you shouldn't go for hot women, but focus of girls being beatiful, and not sexy. Sexy is just an addition.
Talking to Girls:
Believe it or not girls actually talk kinda sexual, so just talk to them like you would a guy. They're not some "other being's from mars" just treat them like a person. You have to have the courage, just pretend like they're cool, don't focus on asking them out at first. You want to talk enough to get to know them, but not too long where you get friend zoned, which is around 2-3 months without action (you should be fine)
Whores:
Now im not going to go off saying I haven't boned a whore before, because I have. It's not wrong too, but i wouldn't choose them as a girlfriend. Chances are they will probably cheat on you. Intentionatly, and non-intentionatly such as drunk parties etc..
You've Talked, Now what?:
Once you get to talk to them in person, get her phone number, let her know you're interested. Talk to her alot, and maybe hang out after school. Get the courage to ask if she likes you. I know that is the most nerve recking part, but it's the only way. If she isn't then fine, it's over find another girl. You can't make them change their mind, so there is no point of trying. This is hard if you really like the person, but if it's not meant to happen then it's not meant to. If she says yes then you're in business.
She said yes!:
Now that she has said yes, hang out more, and maybe after a couple days to a week go on a date with her. let her know how you feel. hopefully she feels the same. You are now a couple
I hope this helps you in some way. I know most of you are going into highschool, or are freshmen and wanted to give you guys some pointers. It's much easier to say you can do it now, but in person it is scary. I know that, just have confidence, you probably will end up liking each other it just takes courage.
This motto inspired me:
So you're too afraid to ask her out huh? Is it because you're afraid of rejection? That shouldn't stop you, would you rather go your whole life wondering what it would've been like to ask her out, or to try and date the girl of your dreams?
Hope this helps you guys!