(adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); I am a freshman in highschool last year i went out with this girl for 3 months i tried to be the nicest i could be and the best boyfriend i really did love her...Then she broke up with me at a school trip and about six months later she starts to date one of my friends who i hung out with alot. Then about 3 months later i get really sick and the doctors think i have apendicitis and she finds out and we start talking again (But i didnt know she was dating my friend) after about 1 and a half months we stop talking again but at the end of the year she tells me that she wishes she never broke up with me and that shes sorry. well more time passes and last week was spring break for me and we used to play this game where id ask her a question and shed answer it truthfully and shed ask me a question and it would go back and forth but anyway towards the end she started asking me questions about how i felt about our old relationship and finally i asked her does she still have feelings for me and she said, " You are a nice guy" then i said, "So no?... you can be honest" then she said, " Its just really dangerous if i say yes or no well i gtg"... and we stopped talking untill about yesterday when she told me that she used to cut herself and then i tried to help her all i could and then she told her boyfriend (my friend) about it and that she told me first and he flipped out on her and she told him that she wont talk to me anymore and she told me what she said after that and i told her "This is gonna hurt like hell but a promise is a promise and since you told him that i dont think it will make it any better if we keep talking" and she said, " no i dont want to loose you as a friend" and i said "Then i just dont know what to do either way i loose a friend" and she said "I do... you talk to me".... so thats my problem i need help with this i still love her and want to talk to her but i dont want to hurt my friend... i have just no idea on what to do i feel bad for my friend but my heart wants to still talk to her....

tl;dr Please make it more interesting for me to read next time.

All that shit your parents fed you about honesty being the "best policy"? Well, that's complete bullcrap; however, it seems to work rather well with this. Just be straight up honest with both of your friends and tell them how you feel. Maybe tell your manfriend that your backne gave you a vision into the future and that if you don't continue talking with your ex that it will eat you in your [s]fly bachelor pad[/s] parents' basement.

As for the girl - if you're sick of living out the same old routine night after night, then bring that up. If you've suddenly developed a taste for Japanese girls in sailor outfits, then mention that. Heck, if you're deathly afraid of hurting anyone's feelings, then just come out and say it. No matter how much you might want to avoid a scene or how crappy you think your reasoning is, just remember: sooner or later the truth always comes out.

And when it does, do you want to be the one who gets caught with his proverbial pants around his ankles? I think not.

Fuck bitches get money.

i think you should take to your friend and tell him its not your fault she told you first. if he is really your friend he will understand that you and her are only friends and just wanna talk. He shouldnt separate you and her just because she told you first about something she "did" not something she is currently doing. I think you should still talk to her and he should grow up and get over it. Goodluck

Bro's before hoes.:fa:

Let me correct that statement for you.

tl;dr & heavily grammatically incorrect.

i was just telling it straight up and thanks for the advice

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thanks also for the advice

Listen closely....
BAG AND TAG THAT BITCH!!
Then get back with your friend

Use punctuation, it's your friend .

But from what I made out from it; I would stay out of the case until the relationship is over with her and your friend, which is probably going to happen eventually. Then talk to her about your feelings and all that lame shit. He can't be pissed for dating her after they've broken up, that would just be hypocritical of him. Hope things work out for you buddy.