Alright, I have been known to be an expert in relationships and what not so I will help you out here no matter how much I think this thread is pointless. First things first always introduce yourself and who you are so the person knows who is messaging them of course. Then the normal "what's up" works as well. But do not overuse the "what's up" phrase as it does get annoying and becomes very boring, very quickly. Always ask a girl about her day she will love that. Then talk about other things like school and interests. From there on the conversations will carry on and work themselves out. Hope I helped you

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