(adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); I've never ever been very social. I hardly ever spoke in school even to the teachers. In kindergarten children would avoid me because I was so silent and I was eventually sent to a social worker that i've had to go to for six years. I hardly ever even talk to my parents. I am now thirteen and I go to middle school, but things are still the same. I wouldn't necessarily say i'm depressed, but yes I am sad a lot inside. The most words I usually say in a day are about 10 although I speak very fluent with a well built vocabulary. When people talk to me I have no idea on what I should say and when I do say something i'm afraid of people judging me. When I say something people stare at me as if it's a miracle of some sort and I feel as though everyone staring at me....I then get really embarrassed, hot, and red in the face. Is there anything I can do or perhaps any pills I can take? I've thought about trying (cannabis) weed...(just once every week or so), since everyone I know is doing it. I'm really smart for my age (as most people say) and adept to learning. I'm 13, studying mathematics, physics, programming, and hardware engineering...will something like weed really effect me in a bad way? I just want to be more sociable and more able to talk to people...i'm sick of being an outcast to people. I just want to be happy and more capable of making friends. The most i've ever had were 3 or 5 and I get really lonely.

stay clear of that garbage. as someone else said to you, they're either lying about using to try and be cool or they are using and there is no need to do that garbage...

talking to people and feeling comfortable about it is just like playing a guitar or riding a bike. it's scary and potentially painful at first, but, the more you do it, the easier it becomes. just go practice. in time, it'll be the easiest part of your day. and when people stare at you while you're talking, it's because you have their attention and that is what they are supposed to do. in time, that also won't bother you. your message here was very well written and constructed. you won't have any problems articulating that once you try.

don't worry about the people smoking weed and popping pills... if that's true, they won't be your friends in a couple of years anyway and you'll be better off.

im a freshman in highschool and i dont talk to but 5 people but its only because i don't like people

Drugz are dangerous but I wouldnt say cannibis is bad. you wana take it then take it but for you I say you dont need it. I started on cannabis to try it out and now its forever on mah mind. you just need to go with the flow of things when people talk to you, get involved with conversationz and always remember to BE YOURSELF. dont change because someone wants you to.

I suggest not to take ANY drugs at all. Like people said above, get into activities, join a group, any sport you think is good for you. Talk to people you like. Just be your self. Have a few friends, play video games, talk about anything going on, etc. But please.. no drugs! drugs are only recommended by doctors if you really need them, you dont need them. You just need to go out more. Thats all. I been there. Im a quiet guy my self, but only when i dont know a person, once you get to know them, its going to be different.

Just be your self BRO!

Yea i Wouldn't say Cannibus is Bad because i smoke about 5 Days a Week and it doesn't Change Me as a Person or Towards other people. i Do Tend to Have a Good Social Life Everywhere and especially in school and people think of me as pretty Chill and Relaxed dude. Along with that i shoot photography and run track as well in my school. It doesn't affect you at all as long as you just DONT ABUSE IT. Well, Maybe Thats me then, idk. But dude, Who cares what people think About You, i Just Say Fuck em And Go Move on With My Life...

Yeah, put down weed! If you smoke you'll be a fuck up, like current president "Barry" Obama, former presidents Bush, Clinton, Former Presidential candidates Newt Ginrich and Al Gore, Mayor of New York Michael Bloomberg, and even Governator Schwarzenegger. I mean, come on, there's nothing wrong with weed. There's something wrong with both abuse and criminalization of weed. When we group weed with cocaine and meth, it links the two. It basically tells the 43% of Americans who admit to smoking weed that if you like weed, you'll LOVE cocaine! Abuse, such as daily, or doing it on a schedule (once a week every friday at 7, for example) will make your body used to weed, and could make you have withdraws if you miss a dose. I personally recommend changing your behavior before doing drugs to fix it, but if you want to have a smoke for shits and giggles go ahead. I mean, think about it. Why medicate so you don't notice the problem instead of just fixing it? Imagine you're in a beat with a small hole in it. You could close your eyes to make the leak go away, or you could just fix the damn leak so you don't have to worry about it!

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Fix the problem through actions. If you want to just smoke a little for the hell of it, read my above post. But change who you are. Assuming that's you in your avatar, get a buzz cut, buy some khakis and a few polos, and be social. Watch sports. (I know you hate them) Half of what I talk about a day is sports, like, did you see Lebrons amazing shot during the XXX quarter? (Don't call me a heat dickrider, I live in Florida I've liked them since I was 7...)

Also, if you happen to go for the weed idea, think shit through. A Gram is $20, don't let anyone tell you different. Make sure you weigh it when you buy it. My friend deals, and he's a little 5 foot 9 130 lb twig. I come along as his enforcer (He's been robbed 3 times for over $1000 of weed combined...) He shorts people BAD. Never trust a dealer...

Also, clutch hunter, depending where he is he could easily have most of his friends smoking. Depending where he lives, it's very likely.

This is frankly terrible, awful advice.

avoid doing drugs as you waste a lot of money for short term happiness.


A say buy some nice clothes build you confidence up, see a specialist if you have too

and you should be fine after that

Ya. Buy some new clothes and I know you probably don't like working out and it's not your thing but just do it. It's a stress reliever and can help you feel better about yourself when you feel like people are always looking at you in a good way.

I've been there myself - it gets lonely. Don't worry about saying something stupid. Honestly, many people say stupid shit, young and old. Being young can be your excuse right now too so that you can say as much dumb shit as you want as a practice run for when you're older.

I advise you not to do drugs/alcohol. Sure it'll help you become a little more sociable OR it can possbily get you to do worse things and make people not want to be around you at all. I have a few drinks on occasion but mostly during celebrations.

I hope this advice helps you even if it's a tiny bit.


I'm new here btw lolz. Hi everyone.