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Yesterday was the day i found out i was "Friend Zoned" by the girl i liked a lot she was my one and only and i was very upset / depressed and i came on this site most of you were supportive and helping me, well anyways i woke up this morning and my friends called me up and asked if i wanted to do something... so i said yes and we went out to the shops to watch a movie. And they all knew about what had happened so when i was in the shower this morning i had a sudden realization ... that if you're a nice guy you %97 wont get anywhere with a girl i use to laugh at guys who said that but then i was aware so i went to the movies with a different attitude i wanted to get a girls number while being an ass and i did it.. it wasn't hard at all when you are "nice" to a girl in their minds they put you under "friend" but when you're a ass they put you as under "ass holes" witch get you in... believe it or not. so bottom line is.. Women like ass holes if you met a girl who likes nice guys she is special but if not be an ass it makes you look more attractive and confident :y:

So yea my rant/story is over hope this helped the community

if i need to be an asshole to get a girls number than i don't want it.
if i need to degrade myself and possibly whoever the girl maybe to get her number than i don't want it.
being real and being yourself will get you a lot farther and bring more happiness in life.
i don't think 8 years from now she will remember you as "that special asshole"
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No kidding, lol. Im kind of looking forward to it if we get together.

so basically you and a friend went on pussay patrol, did you dance like this?



:carling:

Tired of seeing this shit.

Nice guys don't finish last.

Ever think it's not just because you're nice?

Maybe you have a fucked up face,yellow teeth,shitty humour, annoying laugh,bad breath,regardless of what it is I promise you it is not because you are nice.

Just make them laugh and have an ounce of confidence,that's pretty much all it takes.

tl:dr Stop whining and be more likable.

Don't be an asshole, I see guys doing that all the time and they always end up with the most sluty girls around. Be a nice guy and eventually you'll find the right person.

Don't be an asshole, and don't be nice. PERIOD. Just be yourself, and you'll find the one who'll like you for what you are, not what you want to be. :y:

PS: If you are nice, then good. If you aren't then don't change to being nice just for a girl.

Ight, there was this bitch I liked for around 3 years on and off. I was really nice, honestly perfect "boyfriend material". She knew within the first month I really liked her, but she just wasn't interested. She sent some pictures to this guy, and he threatened to send them to all these people, and I stole his phone and deleted that shit. A guy talked shit to her, I beat his ass. I was that guy who always said she was pretty when a bitch called her ugly, etc. I did anything she asked basically. I was so fucking friendzoned. It got to the point where she hooked up with a guy, at my house, on two different occasions. It really pissed me off, but I figured I could overlook it the first time. The 2nd time, I got so sick of it, and basically stopped talking to her. After a year, I started talking to her again, about a year later, and I figured since she always hooked up with kids who treat her like crap and use her, I should treat her like crap. After a few months she got mad at me for acting like an asshole, and we started talking about why I was treating her like shit. It turns out she was abused as a little kid, and I was like the first person who actually cared about her. I felt kind of bad, but she went to a different school this year, and I think she's in drug rehab now. :lol: Just something to think about when you think you've been friendzoned.

if you want to settle down then just be your self if not and you just want to fu ck around be an ass just dont give a fu ck about them and move on to the next one injoy your self while your young then one day you will find the right girl and it will be the best thing ever then you can look back and think i had some fu cking ace times every one has to go on a mad one before they settle down

Girls aren't attractive to "assholes" girls are attracted to confidence.
Generally what you call "Nice guys" are usually shy and all that other pussy shit.
What you describe as "assholes" are usually confident which is an appealing trait.
So if you're a "Nice guy" with the confidence of an "asshole" you'll be more successful.