(adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); Last night my fiance and myself broke up, permanently. We've had so many issues in the past and tried to work through it but in reality we only temporarily hid it. We've been speaking a fair bit today mainly on my part because I can't let go just like that. I've been an emotional wreck since the break up and I don't know what to think or do. I guess I'm really posting here looking for some friendly advice or tips on how to cope with this kind of dilemma. She's coming over tonight to get some of her things and to see me, mainly because I've asked to see her due to the last time I seen her it wasn't exactly nice or something nice to remember her by nor for her to remember me by. I've got a lot of personal issues, from reading online to taking advice from family and so forth I can only presume I'm bipolar or majorly depressed, something is definitely wrong. She also told me that maybe after a year or so she'd reconsider ending it and begin another relationship. I think she's saying that not to hurt my feelings because after that length of time I'll have loosened up a bit and be less emotional and such. I just can't stop thinking about all of the little things we share together, looking at her clothes around the house and generally everything I look at has some resemblance to a time we spent together.

I know I can't remain in constant contact with her because in the long-run it makes it much harder to deal with and get over or move on. But I just feel I want to be speaking to her non-stop, she knows how to make me feel better and calm me down, where-as when I speak to my mum or anyone else in my family they're not too keen on expressing a sympathetic opinion or anything, and, I know that perhaps that's better for me; it'd be nice for every now and then for someone to care just a little bit extra.

I've got no family down here (England), all of my family live in Scotland but I moved down here primarily to begin a new life, with my now-ex. I want to remain here, I have a flat and a decent job, although I'm going to be :fa: I just need support from anyone and from anywhere, hence this post.

Please don't troll.

Stay strong my brother. We all are here for you, if you ever wanted to talk to.

First of all, I'm sorry you're going through this. It's never easy, but if you can survive this you will be a better person for it. I have had something extremely similar happen before, but as Mr-Speedy's hoe pointed out we are all different and therefore experience everything in a different way even if the situation might seem the same. However, I feel like I can relate on at least the tiniest level. I was engaged to be married once, and after months of fighting and accusations I felt the relationship had run its course. It wasn't easy making that decision, and it was even harder since I was also suffering from major depressive disorder. I didn't really have any support from anyone, but I made it through. I don't have a perfect life, but nobody really does. You just have to remember that you're not alone.

Have a night out man, try meet someone new! Stay strong man.

Hi , I'm really sorry for what happened to you, I know it is very difficult to separate from someone that we loved and which were just side by side everyday .. But nothing is perfect, sometimes we have to make some decisions that are very difficult and painful but in the end it will bring us a new path and new opportunities. I walked by it, I also had an frogged engagement after 4 years being together, So i know is not simple and it was not easy even more in the first weeks.. I know is quite complicated .. But believe me, then, with time, things will be settling down and taking new directions.. you will not say it now I think, but soon you will meet new people, and you may be interested in someone else soon... Enjoy your time alone to take care of yourself, do everything you always wanted to do but somehow could not , have fun, talk to new people, and avoid to see her for while. It is never good to be seeing the ex (at least i think this way, For me if its finished, is finished.. I prefer not to keep the friendship to not cause more pain) I understand about the problem of bipolarity and i know how hard it is because my mother suffers from the same disorder, so I think that is not getting any easier for you this time and I'm really sorry. But like I said before, you have to try to resuscitate, do everything to chat with friends, go out, have fun, take care of you now, so soon you will feel better. I hope that the future will bring new and wonderful things for you and of course, that brings someone very special

man i feel for you, i know what girls can do to your head man, believe me when i say this, best way to get over a girl is to get on another one lol, i swear im not trolling im speaking from past experience when i broke up with my ex of 4 year i couldnt look at anyone else for months and 1 of my mates said those words to me and you know what? he was right lol, get out and enjoy yourself man seriously, loads of time to settle down when your older

Hey man dont let it hold you down if you are done with her permanently i think you should go out and maybe look for someone else that would suit you better and i know this sounds harsh but it is just friendly advise and you wont be forever alone forever just make friends go out with them go to clubs and such and find a decent girl

Sorry to hear, on the other hand plenty of fish in the sea mate.

I wish I could give you some advice but I'm not that much of a lady's man. :/ Sorry! I hope you get back together though.

man sorry to here this but keep your head up an just take one day at a time something good will come out of it.