(adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); Last night my fiance and myself broke up, permanently. We've had so many issues in the past and tried to work through it but in reality we only temporarily hid it. We've been speaking a fair bit today mainly on my part because I can't let go just like that. I've been an emotional wreck since the break up and I don't know what to think or do. I guess I'm really posting here looking for some friendly advice or tips on how to cope with this kind of dilemma. She's coming over tonight to get some of her things and to see me, mainly because I've asked to see her due to the last time I seen her it wasn't exactly nice or something nice to remember her by nor for her to remember me by. I've got a lot of personal issues, from reading online to taking advice from family and so forth I can only presume I'm bipolar or majorly depressed, something is definitely wrong. She also told me that maybe after a year or so she'd reconsider ending it and begin another relationship. I think she's saying that not to hurt my feelings because after that length of time I'll have loosened up a bit and be less emotional and such. I just can't stop thinking about all of the little things we share together, looking at her clothes around the house and generally everything I look at has some resemblance to a time we spent together.

I know I can't remain in constant contact with her because in the long-run it makes it much harder to deal with and get over or move on. But I just feel I want to be speaking to her non-stop, she knows how to make me feel better and calm me down, where-as when I speak to my mum or anyone else in my family they're not too keen on expressing a sympathetic opinion or anything, and, I know that perhaps that's better for me; it'd be nice for every now and then for someone to care just a little bit extra.

I've got no family down here (England), all of my family live in Scotland but I moved down here primarily to begin a new life, with my now-ex. I want to remain here, I have a flat and a decent job, although I'm going to be :fa: I just need support from anyone and from anywhere, hence this post.

Please don't troll.

+1 on this

You should be glad. She wasn't the one for you. Breaking off an engagement sure beats a divorce.

thats a shame it just wasn't meant to be i guess..!
but theres definatly tons more fish in the sea.. just gota dive right in .!!!