Post: Girl Advice
10-09-2012, 10:40 PM #1
O.P
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(adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); Ight, first off, this is MY story. It's not one of those c/p off google that people post. You can google any part of it, and it won't come up anywhere.

Also, I want some advice. Advice does not include "LOL this is a gaming site not eHarmony :lol: :lol: " because that's fucking useless to me.

Anyways, I've liked this girl for about a month. I'm kind of the class clown at school, and she thinks I'm the funniest guy ever. I've been getting decent signs she likes me, so I figured I'd just ask her out and decided I'd do it after the weekend's over. I was kind of rushing because the same kind of shit has happened to me the last 4 or 5 girls I've actually liked, I told them how I felt to late, and I was friendzoned. Like, DEEPLY friendzoned.

So anyways, I'm just chilling at school Monday, and I was determined I'd ask her out at lunch. Around 3 hours before, I heard some rumors going around about her at this party this weekend, and I honestly didn't care. What I ended up figuring out was she had made out with guys at this party. I really didn't give a shit, I mean, she's single, why wouldn't she make out with some guy she found attractive while drunk, she can do whatever the fuck she wants. But this other friend of mine told me that's pretty common for her, she hooks up with guys, dates guys, and goes through guys really quick.

The last girl I really liked about 4 or 5 months ago was the same way, and turned out to be a dick hungry pig who gave my friend head at my fucking house while I was one room away Smile Also, it turns out one of the guys she hooked up with likes her, and supposedly she likes him too, but I haven't heard of him asking her out or anything. The guy is a fucking pig. I have no respect for him. He dated this one girl, fucked her every day, went o vacation, fucked 4 different bitches there, went on a cruise, fucked this other girl, then lies about it to his then girlfriend.

The same kind of thing happened to the girl I liked 6 months ago. She basically dated this one guy who cheated on her a lot, I found out he was cheating on her, and I told her. I made her promise not to tell the guy who told her, and better yet just not to talk to him about it, just dump him. She didn't listen, asked him, he denied it, then asked who told her, and she said I told her. He wasn't very happy with me the next day.

Anyways, I got fucked over back then, and I don't wanna feel the same way as I did back then. I've narrowed it down to about 4 choices, which, if in my position, would you take?


A. Continue liking her. She'll get over that guy eventually, and you don't even know if it was a one night thing, they might never have anything happen between them. If something happens where you want to help her out cause he's cheating on her, do it, it's the right thing to do.

B. Continue liking her. She'll get over that guy eventually, and you don't even know if it was a one night thing, they might never have anything happen between them. If something happens where you want to help her out cause he's cheating on her, don't do it, she'll fuck you over.

C. Get over her. Be friends or whatever, but just stop liking her. (Not that easy)

D. Get over her, ignore her, stay away from he
r.

I'm stuck between all of the choices. Sorry if this sounded like a rant, I'm in a really shitty mood.

Also, before you troll me, saying I'm a pussy for freaking out she made out with 2 guys, I don't like sluts. If I just wanted to date some slut to fuck her, I'd be doing that right now. The only reason you'd say that is because the only pussy you can get is ratchet ass slut pussy.
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10-10-2012, 01:26 PM #11
JP
Israeli/Palestinian Unity
Get her drunk, have her suck your dick, fuck her, ditch her. #YOLO
10-10-2012, 04:50 PM #12
Hazel
Problem rule #16?
Honestly dude just confess to her and tell her your feelings. If she likes Mr.Playboy more then that is her loss. Waiting would probably be your WORST choice.
10-10-2012, 11:00 PM #13
O.P
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Originally posted by Luke View Post

A. Continue liking her. She'll get over that guy eventually, and you don't even know if it was a one night thing, they might never have anything happen between them. If something happens where you want to help her out cause he's cheating on her, do it, it's the right thing to do.

B. Continue liking her. She'll get over that guy eventually, and you don't even know if it was a one night thing, they might never have anything happen between them. If something happens where you want to help her out cause he's cheating on her, don't do it, she'll fuck you over.

C. Get over her. Be friends or whatever, but just stop liking her. (Not that easy)

D. Get over her, ignore her, stay away from he
r.

WRONG!

Every one of those are wrong.

First off, before I say this to you, I'm not being mean, I'm just giving you advice.

Don't play the waiting game. Please don't do this and set around "thinking" that she will get over him "eventually" because while you're setting on your ass with your thumb in your mouth, another guy could ask her out or tell her his true fillings and she decides to go out with him, and what if he's the one? Well, where are you at? You're sol and you're still setting there in the same position "thinking" that she will get over it and it's just an on going reaction.

Don't "get over it." If you like her, then ask her. This is the number one problem with society these days. If you like a girl, and you think she's cute, has a good personality, and is not a slut, then ask her out. I mean what is the worse that can happen? She says no? OMG! It's the end of the world because I got rejected. Holy fucking shit! Well, lets go home and put a pistol in my mouth....BANG! Well that's over.

What you should do is simply tell her your true feelings. Go up to her and tell her. This shows that you have guts and you're a "guy." Not many "guys" have that good of guts in them in order to do this, also, show that you have confidence to her. I mean like I said, the worst she can say is no.

Here is another suggestion. Be friends with her for a while. Maybe go to a couple of partys with her (don't fuck her or let her suck your cock) take her out, hang out with her. Don't do anything with her though for a while until you guys really start going out. This is a kinda trick you can play. If she wants to know if you're good in bed and you fuck the hell out of her and she hates it, then guess what? You're probably not going to go out with her. It's a lot harder for girls to let you go if you are already dating her and have been dating her for a while and then you guys fuck.

Some things you should not do.

When asking her out, do not use notes, letters, phone calls, or texting. Do it face to face. One of my friends (she's a really good looking chick too)got a note from a guy the other day and he told her his true feelings and she just laughed at the note and threw it away, and to tell you the truth, I don't blame her. I laughed a long with her when she wanted me to read it.

Why did she laugh? Well, because for one. The guy doesn't even have confidence or enough balls to even talk to her face to face. Not even to say "hi" Now who wants to be with a guy like that? That's what you call a pussy. You're not, you're just nervous, and don't know what to do.

I'm also going to tell you this. Seeking dating advice from a guy that has been in very few relationships and relationships that last a lifetime or a long period of time (and I mean like 5 years or more) is 10x better then seeking dating advice that have fucked, made out, and dated over 50 girls, because obviously, they are just a man whore.

One last thing. When you type up a story, please for the love of god next time look up the definition of a "paragraph." This is really hard to read a wall of words, and you would have probably gotten a lot more people to read this if you did use them.

Again, I am not trying to be mean, but this is the way I give dating advice. It's up to you if you want to take it or not.


I know about paragraphs, I was just in a really shitty mood, I'm amazed I could even write all that the way I felt. Anyways, that's some of the best advice I've gotten from anyone.

But the whole go to parties with her, and hangout with her is great, but doesn't that friendzone the fuck out of you usually?
10-11-2012, 03:17 PM #14
-Luke
Former Staff
Originally posted by OFWGKT
I know about paragraphs, I was just in a really shitty mood, I'm amazed I could even write all that the way I felt. Anyways, that's some of the best advice I've gotten from anyone.

But the whole go to parties with her, and hangout with her is great, but doesn't that friendzone the fuck out of you usually?


Not necessarily. When I say go to partys with her, I don't actually mean to get in her car, ride with her, and stay with her the entire time. I mean to go when you know she will be there, and "hangout" with her for a bit. Maybe play a game of beer pong or something. Something, but don't just stay close to her the entire time of the party, or act as though you all are dating.

Also, hanging out all depends on what you do together. I mean hang out with her and a couple of her friends or your friends, not just you and her. Otherwise that would really kinda be considered a "date" and you don't want to go that far.
10-11-2012, 04:08 PM #15
Red
Life In Technicolor
Originally posted by OFWGKT
Ight, first off, this is MY story. It's not one of those c/p off google that people post. You can google any part of it, and it won't come up anywhere.

Also, I want some advice. Advice does not include "LOL this is a gaming site not eHarmony :lol: :lol: " because that's fucking useless to me.

Anyways, I've liked this girl for about a month. I'm kind of the class clown at school, and she thinks I'm the funniest guy ever. I've been getting decent signs she likes me, so I figured I'd just ask her out and decided I'd do it after the weekend's over. I was kind of rushing because the same kind of shit has happened to me the last 4 or 5 girls I've actually liked, I told them how I felt to late, and I was friendzoned. Like, DEEPLY friendzoned.

So anyways, I'm just chilling at school Monday, and I was determined I'd ask her out at lunch. Around 3 hours before, I heard some rumors going around about her at this party this weekend, and I honestly didn't care. What I ended up figuring out was she had made out with guys at this party. I really didn't give a shit, I mean, she's single, why wouldn't she make out with some guy she found attractive while drunk, she can do whatever the fuck she wants. But this other friend of mine told me that's pretty common for her, she hooks up with guys, dates guys, and goes through guys really quick.

The last girl I really liked about 4 or 5 months ago was the same way, and turned out to be a dick hungry pig who gave my friend head at my fucking house while I was one room away Smile Also, it turns out one of the guys she hooked up with likes her, and supposedly she likes him too, but I haven't heard of him asking her out or anything. The guy is a fucking pig. I have no respect for him. He dated this one girl, fucked her every day, went o vacation, fucked 4 different bitches there, went on a cruise, fucked this other girl, then lies about it to his then girlfriend.

The same kind of thing happened to the girl I liked 6 months ago. She basically dated this one guy who cheated on her a lot, I found out he was cheating on her, and I told her. I made her promise not to tell the guy who told her, and better yet just not to talk to him about it, just dump him. She didn't listen, asked him, he denied it, then asked who told her, and she said I told her. He wasn't very happy with me the next day.

Anyways, I got fucked over back then, and I don't wanna feel the same way as I did back then. I've narrowed it down to about 4 choices, which, if in my position, would you take?


A. Continue liking her. She'll get over that guy eventually, and you don't even know if it was a one night thing, they might never have anything happen between them. If something happens where you want to help her out cause he's cheating on her, do it, it's the right thing to do.

B. Continue liking her. She'll get over that guy eventually, and you don't even know if it was a one night thing, they might never have anything happen between them. If something happens where you want to help her out cause he's cheating on her, don't do it, she'll fuck you over.

C. Get over her. Be friends or whatever, but just stop liking her. (Not that easy)

D. Get over her, ignore her, stay away from he
r.

I'm stuck between all of the choices. Sorry if this sounded like a rant, I'm in a really shitty mood.

Also, before you troll me, saying I'm a pussy for freaking out she made out with 2 guys, I don't like sluts. If I just wanted to date some slut to fuck her, I'd be doing that right now. The only reason you'd say that is because the only pussy you can get is ratchet ass slut pussy.


I guess I would realise that it ws just a weekend thing, and continue the plans as you was going to. If she says yes, then that's good, you can take it from there, as she will be with you and if things go well then she won't need anybody else.

However if she doesn't feel like she wants to be with you, then that's her decision, so you would have to accept that and remain being friends with her, or you could stop being friends if you felt badly about her choice.

I'm assuming you want a full time relationship that will continue out of school and through work, so you must understand that she may not be the right person for you, as true love is hard to find, but when you do find it, you realise that you can't be without that person, that when you are away from her, you miss her, and when you are with her you feel happy and feel like you can do anything.

The most possible outcome -- from my view -- is that if she says yes to your proposal, things may work out for a while then later things will fade out, resulting in heartbreak.

However if she says no, then you will need to continue your search for your true love. I'm not being mean, everyone has to go through the same thing, it's part of life. :fa:

I wish you the best of luck with whatever decision you make, and I hope things work out well for you, so don't feel bad about it, just take a night to yourself, sit relax watching your favourite Television Series or Movie with your favourite food and drink, or do whatever makes you feel good, and don't panic, everything will turn out good in the end, it always does. :y:
10-11-2012, 06:14 PM #16
i--DanieL_
Edgier than an octagon
I'm not gonna fuck around here because it's simple. Tell her you like her, you don't even have to be a pussy faggot about it, be blunt as fuck, like just ask straight out if she wants to shift, it's shows confidence. Then when you probably get rejected just move on.

So yeah, any questions?
10-11-2012, 06:48 PM #17
it'll save you alot of time to just be straightforward.
10-11-2012, 07:23 PM #18
I'd forget about her. She sounds like nothing but trouble. Most young women are nothing but trouble anyway. Not worth the time and aggravation.

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